hi Jim, I really was not being rude, as you are an elder and I was brought up with plenty of respect for my elders,and hope your head soon sorts its self out, as for the paintwork why not give yourself a nice holiday in the south west, he he he It would be good to skype you sometime and know your views from a Christian point of view to this sort of marriage and baby on way, it is strictly beyond Biblical beliefs but as a parent then you obviously are there for any of the children, God bless