Good evening clare Well done for talking how you felt on chat when first started well for me its now 2 years this christmas been on here wow . Well I got bullied the first week I came on here by man called Andrew I know some on here and Malcolm weill remember that only too well I felt so isolated then till most of the group supported me on that made me stay on here. I was told to ignore him by members and staff . He gone so no more worries any more It took me long time to get over what he said to me. but then I gained all my confidence all back again and been on sinced up to now no trouble on chat. lets hope no more I was so badly hurt by him I just didn't understand why he had it for me at that time believe he was like that with others I didn't feel secure on here after that. Malcolm and vanessa put me right . Thank god I never know why he was so jealous because its just my nature can't help it but my family told me he must have problems in his personal life and very bitter person tehre is no need to take it out on inocent people like me we no need to be jealous of each other as we all an individual on here and have our differences in life if I were to get jealous of everybody on here then no point in my coming on a chat group so you see this is why we must all make sure no jealousy . I know it sounds daft but if we think abut it just imagine if each and every one of us were so jealous of each other we would all be arguing and at each others throat hahahahahahaahahha that would be no good would it? yes so putting our thoughts on here and our life stories is a brilliant thing We all have nothing to hide on here . After all we got nothing to be ashamed off we are proud of our life styles now but obviously some hard times in our lives but some how we get through it we have nothing to hide either i been on some groups but this is the best now roll on our chat group long live our family on here Good on Jennie for starting it rolling about writing about our life story well done Jennie waiting to raed more stories now on here yippee can't wait Love Carol xxxx