all very good advice - most of us are over 70
Rick
As my friends cross 70 and are heading to 80 or 90 I ask what sort of feelings
are you feeling in yourself? Here are some of the answers . . .
1. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children and my
friends, I have now started loving myself.
2. I have realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my
shoulders.
3. I have stopped bargaining with vegetable and fruit vendors. A few pennies
more is not going to break me, but it might help the poor fellow save for his
daughter’s school fees.
4. I leave my waitress a big tip. The extra money might bring a smile to her
face. She is toiling much harder for a living than I am.
5. I stopped telling the elderly that they've already told that story many
times. The story makes them walk down memory lane and relive their past.
6. I have learned not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. The
onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than
perfection.
7. I give compliments freely and generously. Compliments are a mood enhancer
not only for the recipient, but also for me. And a small tip for the recipient
of a compliment, never, NEVER turn it down, just say "Thank You.”
8. I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my clothes.
Personality speaks louder than appearances.
9. I walk away from people who don't value me. They might not know my worth,
but I do.
10. I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun me in the rat race. I am
not a rat and neither am I in any race.
11. I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. It’s my emotions that
make me human.
12. I have learned that it's better to drop the ego than to break a
relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with relationships, I will
never be alone.
13. I have learned to live each day as if it's the last. After all, it might
be.
14. I am doing what makes me happy. I am responsible for my happiness, and I
owe it to myself. Happiness is a choice. You can be happy at any time, just
choose to be!
