I had answered Rachel privately yesterday already as she had copied me in in her post, and I hadn't realized that she did post it to the list. I repeat some of it below for general interest. On the one hand, yes, these problems do get worse, unless we fix them early on. The hotter one will always only get hotter, unless we make the lazy one work. On the other hand, sure, we must also make sure that he is comfortable and it's not a feet problem. And for the idea of not being able to go shopping for a perfect partner: Well, let's all rest assured, there is no perfect pair :-). That's a dream even the folks with a lot of money are trying to fulfill, but it really never happens perfectly. So in a way, we all try to make the best with what we have - but sure, some have better than some others. But we also need to realize when things can't be made, the Porsche and the Mack truck pair just doesn't work out, no matter how much we train or try to fix, and will not only not make a good pair, but will usuaaly even get worse over time and then is really unfair to both horses as it will make the job miserable for both of them. So first let's wait till his feet or ok and the ground is too so that you can drive on grass or something nice. Then make him work single and get him to PULL and get some work attitude. Then try again in the pair, take the eager one back one or two holes in the reins, perhaps just for a short training period, even make the traces longer for the eager one, so to keep him out of draft and in your hand, and make the lazy one work, and see if you can get it fixed that way. Good luck. But if it doesn't work, oh well, then try tandem, and put the lazy one in the wheel and the eager one as leader. You can have a lot of fun with that too. Best of luck hardy In a message dated 4/28/2005 12:05:58 AM Pacific Standard Time, ecartis@xxxxxxxxxxxxx writes: > This problem seems to be worse this > spring than last year, which leads me to think that just perhaps he is sore. > I've been mostly driving on the road this spring since everywhere else is > too wet, and my ponies are always barefoot. It's never been a problem > before, but there's a first time for everything. I'm going to try to stay > off the road for a while in case he's actually sore, not lazy. I would feel > so bad if I discovered that he wasn't being naughty, but hurting somewhere. > Process of elimination I guess. They'll never be a well-matched pair, but I > have no serious aspirations for them (however I also have no desire to make > them do something that they can't). Some of us just drive what we have. I > can't go shopping for a perfect partner for Mr. Eager. That would be an > incredible pair! > _________________________________________________________ To Unsubscribe, change to Digest or Vacation mode go to: http://www.drivingpairs.com/dpmem.shtml `````````````````````````````````````````````````````````