Marged, Sounds like a good article... As I wrote several days ago(post below)...that's exactly what Andy Marcoux cautioned about my very forward mare. In fact, as I was really concentrating on my slower gelding using the whip a bit...Andy started "pretend" hitting my husband who was standing by Andy. Trying to get my attention to see that I should not be so focused on going to the whip w/my "lazy" gelding who was walking off like I asked, but also half halting and insisting that my little mare step off lightly and listen to me. Good illustration...I thought...as I was not quite listening to Andy and really concentrating on the gelding who was actually doing exactly what I asked...why reprimand him(why reprimand my husband)...and not the "rude" little mare(the whip who wasn't paying attention). Barbara in Ohio Wind Dance Ponies >I have just paired a > mother and son. I ground drove them in a recent clinic with Andy Marcoux > and he saw right away that my gelding was going to be purely happy to go > along for the ride. But he also cautioned me to watch how forward my > little > mare is. In our case, she is extremely forward and almost too willing to > walk off. He suggested I would use a half halt on her from the > start...not > just concentrating solely on my slower gelding and using the whip on him. > Both issues needed addressed. > Barbara in Ohio > > > > I read an article called the "Rude Horse" a long time ago that changed the > way I approach this problem. Its just as much of a problem to have a > horse that forges ahead, refuses to let the other horse work, pulls > everything out of alignment, etc. as to have a "lazy" horse. So often > ,the "lazy horse" gets chastised and pushed to keep up, when he really > can't. The rude horse will keep pulling ahead. There is a lot written > about rein adjustment to allow one to hold the "rude horse" back. The > constant interaction of the pair is what is supposed to be fascinating > here, not irritating. its the challenge. Right? Remember that the pole > points to the horse who isn't pulling....your job is to keep it all > straight. Marged _________________________________________________________ To Unsubscribe, change to Digest or Vacation mode go to: http://www.drivingpairs.com/index.php?pg=2 `````````````````````````````````````````````````````````