I had this problem a lot last year. I was driving my older mare with her 4 year old daughter. While hitching and standing the 4 year old either had to bite the pole or the header or try and rub. While the other horse just stood. There is something to be said for the broke horses. Anyways the biting at the pole and the header was mainly caused by teething (i.e. permanent teeth comming in) So what I did to help with this issue was to put a flash nose band on. This helped by being self-correcting. It also kept the youngster from nipping at her partner in the pair. I used the flash for about 2 months. By useing the flash I didn't have to keep picking on the youngster. As for the itching. If we are standing I will usually say there name, and make the sound "AAAACK" . If that doesn't work I flick the whip. It is constant viligence. No relaxing ever. You can make it easier by haveing a header but often times a header gets distracted. If itching while hitching or unhitching (the most common they are sweaty then) I will smack under belly with my hand if I happen to be on that side. Or use the rein and say their name. If you always do the same thing for bad behavior they eventually get over it. I never let the horses rub with their bridle on. Even when unhitched. I can hardly wait to drive the pair again this summer. I wean the foal in June and then momma horse goes back to work in the pair. Diane Kastama (Ramona, CA) _________________________________________________________ To Unsubscribe, change to Digest or Vacation mode go to: http://www.drivingpairs.com/dpmem.html `````````````````````````````````````````````````````````