Taboo Word for Vagina Distracts From Inhumane Trump Policy
By William Boardman, Reader Supported News
04 June 18
We spent the day wrestling with the repercussions of one bad word, when we
all should have spent the day incensed that as a nation we are wrenching
children from their parents and treating people legally seeking asylum as
criminals. If we are OK with that then really, who are we?
- Samantha Bee acceptance speech, May 31, 2018
Samantha Bee is a smart, talented, funny, incisive, edgy, 48-year-old
Canadian/American mother of three. She is also the star of the TBS show
"Full Frontal with Samantha Bee," now in its third year. In 2017, Time
magazine named her one of the 100 most influential people in the world. On
May 31, 2018, the Television Academy's annual awards for "outstanding
programs that have leveraged the dynamic power of television to inspire
social change" included Samantha Bee's "Full Frontal." The awards ceremony
was closed to the media because, in the taped broadcast of "Full Frontal"
the night before, in the context of castigating the Trump administration
immigration practices, Samantha Bee had called Ivanka Trump a "feckless
[taboo word for vagina]," setting off a cultural foofaraw over vulgarity,
but without concern for children taken from their parents by government
force.
"Full Frontal" was honored especially for its intensely supportive coverage
of the #MeTo and Time's Up movements, another policy area where the Trump
administration has failed and where Ivanka Trump, as a woman, has apparently
been feckless. (On April 5, 2017, Samantha Bee tweeted a show promo
promising: "The Greatest Feminists in Feminism Herstory Hall of Lady Fame:
Ivanka Trump.")
In the May 30 episode of "Full Frontal," at the end of a seven-minute
immigration segment, Bee referred to a posed, sentimental photograph from
Ivanka Trump's Instagram page, showing Ivanka holding her son, their faces
almost nose to nose, a deliberately charming image. (The page includes
considerable commentary, some of it expressing heartless disregard for the
children separated from their parents.) Bee juxtaposed this mother-toddler
tease with a statement of Trump administration immigration policy and called
on the uniquely positioned "special advisor to the president to step up and
defend the values implied in her photo:
After decades of ignoring the issue, Americans are finally paying attention.
Well, most of us. Ivanka Trump, who works at the White House, chose to post
the second most oblivious tweet we've seen this week. Y'know, Ivanka, that's
a beautiful photo of you and your child, but let me just say, one mother to
another: do something about your dad's immigration policies, you feckless
c***. He listens to you. Put on something tight and low-cut and tell him to
f***ing stop it. Tell him it was an Obama thing and see how it goes.
Predictably, the next morning the White House reacted explosively to the
taboo word for vagina and ignored the human suffering caused by its
immigration practices. At 8:30 a.m. press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders
said the "language used by Samantha Bee last night is vile and vicious."
Then she blurred the issue by claiming: "Her disgusting comments and show
are not fit for broadcast," logically equating a critique of government
inhumanity with calling someone a feckless taboo word for vagina. That's a
morally indefensible opinion that went largely unnoticed in the hooha over
the taboo word for vagina. Sanders also issued an implied call for Time
Warner and TBS to fire Samantha Bee, perhaps tortiously interfering with
their contractual relationship. It's also very like an unconstitutional call
for government censorship. And Sanders did not gracefully let it go at that,
but went on to try to make the taboo word for vagina a partisan issue: "The
collective silence by the left and its media allies is appalling." Trump's
been using the taboo word for vagina at least since 2004. And Ted Nugent,
who called Hillary Clinton a "toxic [taboo word for vagina]" in 1994
(without apology since), was a welcome guest at the Trump White House in
2017. And then there's the Trump classic, "Grab 'em by the pussy," but
enough already. Well, just two more allegations: Trump called both Acting
Attorney General Sally Yates and financial reporter Jennifer Lin by the
taboo word for vagina.
The same afternoon at 2:16 p.m., Samantha Bee tweeted her apology:
I would like to sincerely apologize to Ivanka Trump and to my viewers for
using an expletive on my show to describe her last night. It was
inappropriate and inexcusable. I crossed a line, and I deeply regret it.
Well, that seems fair enough, doesn't it? Bee apologized to Trump for
calling her a taboo word for vagina, even though that's anatomically
correct. But what about "feckless"? Shouldn't she apologize for that, too,
since Ivanka Trump, whatever else one may think of her, is hardly feckless
as she globe-trots, merchandises out of the White House, and collects
Chinese patents at a remarkable rate? Ivanka Trump has apparently not yet
responded to Bee's apology. When Trump's initial mother and child photo post
appeared on Instagram and she received a hail of negative reaction, she did
respond obliquely to that with quasi-religious quotes from Marcus Aurelius:
If thou workest at what is before thee, following right reason seriously,
vigorously, calmly, without allowing anything to distract thee. If thou
holdest to this, expecting nothing, fearing nothing, but satisfied with thy
present activity according to nature... thou wilt live happy. And there is
no man who will be able to prevent this.
That was May 29, when Ivanka Trump also said more directly: "Focus on what
is before you, on what you can control and ignore the trolls! Have a great
week." The next night "Full Frontal" aired.
At the Television Academy Honors event, having publicly apologized earlier
in the day, Samantha Bee described what had happened as she saw it:
Stories about 1,500 missing unaccompanied migrant children flooded the news
cycle over the weekend. So last night we aired a segment on the atrocious
treatment of migrant children by this administration and past
administrations. Sometimes even the ones who look best in swim trunks do bad
jobs with things. Our piece attracted controversy of the worst kind..
I can tell you, as long as we have breath in our bodies and 21 minutes of
airtime once a week, repeats on Saturdays, that we as a show will never stop
shouting [about] the inhumanities of this world from the rooftops and
striving to make it a better place. But in a comedy way.
The next day, the president doubled down on his press secretary's implied
threats, calling for Samantha Bee's firing. TBS has indicated support for
Bee, saying she did the right thing in apologizing and also accepting some
responsibility for allowing the taboo word for vagina on the air. Fox and
fellow festerers continue to call for Bee's scalp. Her program has lost some
advertisers, Autotrader (with dishonest, inaccurate comment) and State Farm
(with a wishy-washy comment). Neither company took issue with US treatment
of immigrants that amounts to a crime against humanity. The New Yorker has
published an entertaining piece explaining that, for centuries, the taboo
word for vagina was actually in happy, common usage (in Hamlet's reference
to "country matters," for example). Only in the past century or so has the
word become taboo and "dirty." The piece also quotes two tweets from
contemporary actresses supporting Samantha Bee (edited here for clean
living), much to the distress of right-wing virtuecrats.
Sally Field:
"I like Samantha Bee a lot, but she is flat wrong to call Ivanka a [taboo
word for vagina].
"[Taboo words for vagina] are powerful, beautiful, nurturing and honest."
Minnie Driver:
"That was the wrong word for Samantha Bee to have used. But mostly because (
to paraphrase the French ) Ivanka has neither the warmth nor the depth."
The biggest problem with calling anyone a taboo word for vagina or any other
insult is that it's lazy, meaningless, distracting, and dumb. A good insult
has substance, not just derogation. "Israeli snipers are killers" may be
true but it's easily dismissed, unlike, say, "That Israeli sniper should not
have assassinated that unarmed nurse when she was tending to a wounded man
on the ground 200 yards away."
Samantha Bee calling Ivanka Trump a "feckless [taboo word for vagina]" may
have felt good (and has some cultural relevance), but it's wrong, just on
timid civility grounds, but more so on the ground that it distracts from
Ivanka Trump's actual complicity in the real crimes of the Trump White House
against not just immigrants but almost everyone on the planet. Samantha Bee
is reportedly preparing to address this issue further in her next show, June
6. This is not some poly-bigot (blacks, Jews, Arabs) like Roseanne Barr,
blaming her bigotry on her medication. Samantha Bee is a serious person who
actually wants to know, "Really, who are we?"
William M. Boardman has over 40 years experience in theater, radio, TV,
print journalism, and non-fiction, including 20 years in the Vermont
judiciary. He has received honors from Writers Guild of America, Corporation
for Public Broadcasting, Vermont Life magazine, and an Emmy Award nomination
from the Academy of Television Arts and Sciences.
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