[bksvol-discuss] Re: resigning from the volunteer list
- From: "Melissa Green" <graduate56@xxxxxxxx>
- To: <bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Wed, 9 Sep 2009 23:59:25 -0600
Good points have been made on this issue.
I see the main point as this, be honest. But use some consideration,
deplomacy, as well as tact.
I can be very outspoken. But I try really hard to watch what I say. I also
try not to hurt the feelings of others.
Melissa Green
Without Christ I am nothing, Without me Christ is still God. It's because of
Christ I am able to stand!!!
----- Original Message -----
From: Amber Wallenstein
To: bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Wednesday, September 09, 2009 8:45 AM
Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: resigning from the volunteer list
If her tone is "brusque" as you call it, why have at least ten people I know
of personally, and I don't know a ton of people on the net unsubscribed and in
some cases, stopped volunteering altogether due to harsh criticism by E. and
others? People need to realize that brusqueness in one affects others.
Especially if one is new, they will not know E. is brusque. they will assume
rudeness was implied. We should not have to tell new volunteers, "Oh, so and
so is brusque, go ahead and ignore that, they've gotten better". We've said
this over and over and I think that need not be said. Instead, people need to
realize they are writing to a public list and curb their emotions and
brusqueness, as it were. E. has been told for years she needs to be more
mindful. this is just the last straw, apparently.
Amber
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