You're right, David. I can only speak for myself, but I admit that I am overly sensitive. I was thinking, childishly, or "picking up my marbles and going home." But I agree with Sue and Kaitlin. This has been a friendly, as well as a helpful list, and lots of people, in addition to Guido and Pratik, whose wild humor I will really miss if they stop posting here, have wonderful senses of humor. By posting items occasionally off-topic, or making off-topic comments to on-topic posts, people's personalities seem to come across, as they do with the tenor of the on-topic posts. They become individuals and friends. We, at least I, become interested in their lives -- graduate school, jobs, entering college as freshmen, weddings, children -- that's why some people feel they can express their sorrows at certain events in their lives, as well as their happinesses, and we can console as well as share their joys. I don't initiate off-topic discussions, but I do respond to posts with them when I feel like it. I'm going to do the same as Sue -- continue to be myself. I will try to remember to use OT, which, though sometimes I forget, I usually remember to do and to change the subject line. If, as I think Kellie or Jana said, we all do that, the person who doesn't like to read OT subjects can delete without reading the post. I might suggest, too, that people who don't like this list subscribe to the bookshare-discuss list instead. I'm on both. Although that, as I understand, was intended for book discussions than for volunteer problem discussions, it seems to be the latter as well as this one -- and I don't think I've seen any, or certainly not many, OT posts there -- only requests for help. Cindy earthlink.net> wrote: > Over the past few days some people have been getting > a bit aggressive on a > couple of topics and it seems some people have > needlessly had their feelings > hurt. > > > > David Carter > > > > __________________________________ Discover Yahoo! Find restaurants, movies, travel and more fun for the weekend. Check it out! http://discover.yahoo.com/weekend.html