Then I guess you’re doing something right then. There are worse things to be called. On Aug 4, 2014, at 10:42 AM, Josh <lawdog911@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > Hey, > We are now back from our trip to Pigeon Forge, we actually stayed in > Gatlinburg, but all the little tourist cities are so close that if you stay > in one you are going to end up in the other other at some point. We arrived > back on Saturday. So, I will back up to Tuesday. We had intended on going up > to spend the evening having dinner and going to Nascar Speed Park. We went > to dinner at Hard Rock Café and then headed over to Nascar Speed Park. When > we arrived in order to keep him some what on a bed schedule which eventually > got thrown out the window for a couple of days, but that is later in the > story, we decided before going in that he would have an hour to ride the go > carts. Well, when we gotinside and found out that in order to ride the go > carts we all had to pay $20 a piece just to get in or so we thought at the > time. We cancelled that plan for the night, but told Little Man that we > would return the next day when we had more time. Between that night and the > next day Amanda and I decided to go up for a few days rather than just the > day. However, we didn't hear much from Little Man the rest of the night due > to him being upset because he couldn't ride the go carts that night. He kept > it under control till bed time when he broke down, we, Amanda and II, both > knew he was upset even though he was the one that said he would rather have > more time the next day. We knew the minute he turned down a helicopter ride > that he was upset after we left Nascar Speed Park. We also knew from a long > conversation with Amanda's dad that he and his wife would like to join us > for the trip to Dixie Stampede. There is a lot more to this story with the > conversation with her dad, but that is for another e-mail when I can explain > more in-depth us being called "Holier Than Thou" by her dad. As a matter of > fact to not keep everyone in the dark I will try my best to send the e-mail > that explains the comment in another e-mail that comes behind this one. Back > to the topic though. So, I ended up trying to put in perspective for Little > Man by asking him if he would want to pay $5 for 10 legos when he could have > 150 legos the next day for the same price. He said he would rather have the > 150 legos. After that little conversation he was a lot better and had a good > rest of the night. The next day we got up and packed our bags. Amanda sent > her step-mom an e-mail letting her know that we were going up and that we > were planning to go to the Dixie Stampede either later that night or on > Friday. We eventually heard back from her explaining she knew nothing about > the trip so Amanda would have to call her dad. Amanda didn't feel like this > was her place since they had already talked about it a few nights before so > she waited till Thursday night to call about Friday. However, we did receive > a good bit of news that Amanda's aunt, uncle, and cousin decided to also go > up to Pigeon Forge for a day or two rather than heading back to Pensacola. > We got in touch with them and ended up spending majority of our trip > together. So, the first stop was Nascar Speed Park where Amanda's little > cousin, 12 year old, rode go carts with Little Man. We also found out htat > we did not all have to pay the $20 in order to get in. We did pay for a $10 > roll of tokens, 2 rolls of tokens for $16 so that wasn't too bad. When > Amanda's aunt and uncle arrived we all decided to purchase unlimited > miniature golf for another $7 a piece again that was still saving money when > we consider that we thought originally we were going to have to pay the $20 > a piece in order to get in. So, we spent practically all day just letting > the kids ride go carts and playing miniature golf. I ended up putting 65 on > 18 holes of miniature golf. It was a par 3 course so a perfect score would > have been 54. Amanda scored a few points under par I belive her score was 57 > and her aunt scored right around a 61 if I am not mistaken. The kids started > out playing, but got bored with it and returned to riding rides. When we > finished up they were in line to ride the kiddie roller coaster. We had > dinner at aplace called Logan's Roadhouse. When we arrived to check into our > room we discovered that they did not have the room that we had reserved so > they gave us a free room upgrade which was nice and right beside the > Ripley's Aquarium. The only downfall to this hotel where we stayed was the > breakfast cost right around $45 with tip and it wasn't anything special. We > had this room reserved for 2 nights and did not make this mistake on the 2nd > morning. After breakfast at the hotel we went to the Aquarium and spent a > good portion of the day there. That evening we met up with the aunt and > uncle for a dinner show and then returned to their RV park for some smores > by the campfire. The dinner show was called Lumber Jack Feud. The feud was a > lot of fun and the food wasn't too shabby either. So, this is Tuesday, > Wednesday, and Thursday. Friday we all got up and headed into the mountains > for a picnic in Cades Cove and a drive thorugh the loop. We got up there a > little after 11:00 AM and set up in a prime picnic location right by the > creek. The kids played in the creek with Amanda's uncle till about 4:00 PM. > At 4:00 PM we headed into the loop where there are deer, wild turkey, bears > and other wild life. We spent about 4 hours in the loop which is 11 miles. > In addition to all the wild life there is old log cabins, churches, and even > an old general store down from the visitors center at the half way point. At > the end of the loop just before getting ready to head out we seen what > everyone comes to Cades Cove to see other than the beautiful scenery in the > mountains. I enjoy the tranquil setting and even got to enjoy what everyone > comes to see from the sounds it made. Up in the tree we seen a Smoky > Mountain Black Bear working on pulling down a limb that apparently had some > good food on it it from the amount of effort this bear was putting into > breaking off the limb. Thursday night we decided we were going to stay > antoher night, but we found out that our hotel was sold out so we had to > move. We moved to the other side of the Aquarium to a hotel that didn't have > great reviews, but I am glad we didn't listen to the reviews because the > room was great and I imagine that the reviews kept the price of the hotel > down too. Saturday we were forced to leave because we had a foster parent > training class. So, we got upand checked out at 10:00 AM. We had planned on > stopping to to grab a bite to eat for breakfast, but luckily we had snacky > type stuff that we could eat for breakfast such as little hostess muffin > minis because traffic was horrible. We were working our way to the > interstate, but received a text from Amanda's aunt that they had been > sitting in traffic for nearly 45 minutes just crawling. The interstate > should have ony taken roughly 15 to 30 minutes to get on to from where they > were staying, but by the time they finally reached the interstate they had > been sitting for an hour in traffic. I am glad that we received the text > when we did because it enabled us to take a bck road into town. Even sitting > in the traffic we did until we got to the back road prevented us from > stopping for breakfast. We dropped Little Man off at 12:40 PM and the > training was at 1:00PM. We pulled in for the training at 12:55 PM and by the > time we got our stuff set down it was 12:58 PM. We cut it close, but rather > we were there at 12:00 or 12:58 we were on time and set up by the 1:00 PM > class time. While on a break Amanda had received a text inviting us to > dinner. Ordinarily we would like more notice than a roughly 2 to 3 hour > invite, but since we got Little Man we try our best to make whatever they > have going on and I have always tried to be flexible, but the in-laws are > the type if they received that kind of notice then they would automatically > decline due to not having enough notice. So, that night we ended up getting > home right around 10 and then we were back up the next morning for church > since we had missed the last 2 Sundays due to being in Kentucky one weekend > and the next weekend family was in from Pensacola so we thought that would > be the last time we saw them till next year which didn't turn out to be the > case. All in all we had a great time even with being called Holier than thou > by her dad over some butting of heads when it comes to Little Man. > - > -----Original Message----- > From: Josh [mailto:lawdog911@xxxxxxxxxxx] > Sent: Monday, July 28, 2014 11:05 PM > To: 'audio-pals@xxxxxxxxxxxxx' > Subject: RE: [audio-pals] Re: Week in Review > > Thank you and yes it is a lot of fun for adults too. I love the skeetball > game. He is having a blast. Either Amanda is feeling a little better or has > just gotten use to the pain *LOL*. I haven't heard much about the incident. > I just found out today that he is tall enough to drive on three of the > go-cart tracks at one of the places up in tourist town Pigeon Forge (Nascar > Speed Park). So, I think we are going to try and take him up there one day > this week. We have school supplies to buy also. Another thing that I believe > is in the plans is Dixie Stampede. > The latest incident involving him is we are finding out that people that > use to be our friends believe their daughter does no wrong. I say that use > to be our friends because once a new couple moved into our apartment complex > they dropped us and went with them. Well, their daughter is quick to run and > tell on anything that Little Man does. Some things are his fault, but the > more we observed the more we started realizing that she instigates him to > try and get him in trouble so that they can exclude him by getting him into > trouble. When all this first started happening he would get in trouble and > nothing would happen to the "angel". However, L.M. has since learned that if > he tells us the complete story then we know how to best help him. Tonight is > one of those situations. They were throwing one ofthose stress balls. They > eventually came and told that he threw the ball hard and almost hit the > little girl in the face. His story is when he first got down there the > little girl said well are you going to throw it or what. This part of the > story came about because he is bad about trying to make people do things > rather than asking them. However, this time was not the case as he pointed > out she made her comment. So, they started launching the ball at him hard. > Well, he too was throwing the ball. He said that when the ball almost hit > the girl in the face no one said they were threw throwing or anything, but > rather than trying to catch the ball she stood there and looked at it and > that is when the ball almost hit her in the face. > Due to his emotional reaction when I tried to trip him up a time or two > and the consistency in his story I have no doubt in the world that what he > is telling me is the truth as he sees it. This girl knocks on the door > constantly so he is now being informed to start knocking on her parents door > when she tries to start things with him. Amanda sent the momma a text and > her only response is the girls say that he hit her in the stomach with the > ball and they let that go (CYOA). Amanda texted back nad told the momma that > us adults all know that kids are going to leave out the parts that would get > them into trouble and we all know that kids aren't angels all the time, but > we do not believe any of them are innocent with this incident. Amanda asked > the momma why this part of the story was left out, the part with hitting her > in the stomach with the ball, when she came to tell on him since she has no > problems telling any other part of the story when he does something. It > seems logical to report the actual hit rather than the almost hit. > There was no response back because there is no answer for this illogical > response in the first place. She knows her kid is in the wrong, but refuses > to admit it. However, Little Man went and apologized for the unintentional > almost hitting her in the face with the stress ball. He even apologized for > yelling back at the girl that yelled at him. > The interesting part is the parents of this girl complain about her mouth > and her actions all the time toward them. They say she doesn't come home one > day that she doesn't get into trouble for her mouth. I feel bad for coming > down on him so hard in the past when more than likely she instigated him as > I have observed her do on a couple of other occasions in the past. If they > don't lose this set of blinders they have on this girl is in for a lot of > trouble in the future. We had him tell the story an number of times and the > trips were thrown in at different areas and the story remained consistent. I > know he is capable of getting into trouble with his mouth, but I also can > tell when he is trying to get away with something. This time he isn't 100% > guilty, I am not sure he is even 25% guilty, but nonetheless there was an > issue so there had to be at the least a discussion. so we just talked to him > about not throwing the ball where it will hit someone in the face. I am glad > that he didn't get into trouble with this incident because I am looking > forward to heading up to Pigeon Forge tomorrow or the next day. > -----Original Message----- > From: audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx > [mailto:audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Heather > Sent: Monday, July 28, 2014 2:42 PM > To: audio-pals@xxxxxxxxxxxxx > Subject: [audio-pals] Re: Week in Review > > Hi Josh, it sounds like lm had a great time. Chucky Cheese is cute and fun > even for adults. I do believe Bethie and I would take the boys to Showbiz > Pizza years ago. I used to shoot the teeth out of the clowns mouth without > even being able to see the teeth! There were cute dancing characters that > would sing Elvis! Ah the good ole days! Bet he had fun at the zoo. I hope > Amanda is not hurt and is feeling better now. Have a great rest of the > summer. > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Josh" <lawdog911@xxxxxxxxxxx> > To: <audio-pals@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > Sent: Saturday, July 26, 2014 8:04 AM > Subject: [audio-pals] Week in Review > > >> Hello , >> >> Well we will start with Friday. On Friday morning Amanda got up for >> a training that lasted 3 hours, she has to have so many hours of >> training each year to keep in good standing at her job. After she got >> home we had some running around to do, last minute stuff, before we >> headed up to Kentucky. >> Amanda's uncle, Little Man's great uncle, invited L.M. up to be the >> bat boy on his travelling team of 13 and 14 year olds. So, L.M. >> thought he was big stuff this past weekend running around on the >> baseball field. So, Sunday morning we set off headed back home and >> actually enroute to a birthday party that was for Amanda's co-worker's >> son and L.M.'s friend. The party was at a place called Chuck E Cheese, >> I am told it is much like a Famous Dave's if anyone is familiar with >> that. The previous name of the establishment was Show Biz Pizza. The >> place is a kid's dreamland full of arcade style games and characters >> that get on a stage and perform. So, after a long, but fun weekend we >> returned home. Monday was semi uneventful other than L.M. >> having >> Vacation Bible School starting up which ran from 6:00 to 8:30 each night. >> Friday was the program night and the last night of V.B.S. Tuesday we >> spent some time at the allergist office finding out that the >> pediatrician that he went to the first time was incorrect in her >> diagnosis of him having allergies to wheat, eggs, and dairy. We found >> out htat he only has an allergy to Maple Tree Pollen. Wednesday we >> went to the library to return some books and then headed up to a drive >> through safari that is nearby. . >> When we returned back to town we went to the zoo and purchased season >> passes. Thursday we went skating. I did not skate. Amanda did skate >> and ended up getting injured, no broke bones that we can tell right >> now, but she is still limping around as of this morning. Today we, >> Amanda and myself, have DCS training in order to stay in good standing >> as foster parents that starts at 9:00 and runs till 3:00. After the >> training is over we have to go to her dad's house due to family being >> in from Pennsacola, Fl. While we are at training L.M. is going to >> Super Hero Day at the Zoo with my Dad and Mom. >> So, it has been a really busy week with minimal down time. Amanda is >> off for the upcoming week, last week of summer vacation for her. Then >> one more week and L.M. goes back to school ending his summer vacation. >> >> > > > --- > This email is free from viruses and malware because avast! 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