Hello all, It will help me out a lot if we could discuss Barbara in private. I am sorry don't meant to be rude. I dearly loved Barbara and she was a good counselor and great friend but in order for me to heal i must not read anymore about her. I know she touched many lives and that fine. But her death has affect me too greatly. I am hurting so much that my service dog is working over time to keep me safe and grounded while i am going into a deep depression. Thanks Sarah -----Original Message----- From: Jennifer Henderson <jennifer8899@xxxxxxx> To: adaptivetec@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Sun, Apr 18, 2010 3:13 pm Subject: [adaptivetec] Re: the loss of a member of our community Well written Peggy. my prayers are for the boys, and friends. Jennifer H ----- Original Message ----- From: "Peggy Washington" <peggann7@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> To: <adaptivetec@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Wednesday, April 14, 2010 5:38 PM Subject: [adaptivetec] Re: the loss of a member of our community > > Barbara was loved by so many of us. > > She was a dear friend to me, wonderful mentor and the best fellow > > counselor anyone could ask to work with. > > While she was truly an outstanding RCB, she was even more outstanding as a > > loving Mom and friend. > > She would be so pleased with all the kind words, appreciation and warmth > > shared by our community. > > She was a truly gracious lady filled with class and humility, and she > > never liked a fuss. She always deserved acknowledgment for her talents > > and accomplishments. > > But like those who understand what really matters in the long run; Barbara > > understood the reward of caring about others, making sacrifices, giving > > back to our community and working hard behind the sceens instead of > > seeking RCB celebraty as it is so often the case with DOR counselors. > > She knew to partner with our consumers in achieving successful outcomes > > was not only a victory for one of our consumers, but a victory for the > > entire blind community when one of us overcame barriers, and got a job or > > gained independence and self reliance in another way. I always enjoyed > > working with another RCB who never lost sight of our Mission at Rehab. > > She sincerely cared about each and every one of her consumers, and she > > still loved her job with the Department even after 11 years. > > For those who were working with her, do not worry. What I'm able to > > share with you is even now you're being assigned counselors who will > > continnue what Barbara put in place for you. This is all I can say, but > > it's going to be ok. > > Please keep making progress; because this is the best way to honor her > > memory, and honor yourselves. > > We were all blessed to know this incredible kind unique human being. > Her > spirit will always remain with each and every one of us She will > remain > in our hearts. > > Thank you all for such kind words celebrating the increddible life of > > Barbara Messinger. > > ps. Ok now, I'm back on topic of adaptive tech, and I appreciate those > > who may not have known her being considerate enough to listen. It was > > important to acknowledge such a treasured member and role model in > > our community. But that's all I'll post here on this list. > > > . > > > > > , ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Kate Williams" > <kate@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> > To: <adaptivetec@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > Sent: Tuesday, April 13, 2010 8:05 PM > Subject: [adaptivetec] Re: the loss of a member of our community > > >> Christine. >> >> How lovely of you to pay tribute to Barbara with your kind words. She >> >> was, >> indeed, a remarkable woman who had a passion for giving her Clients every >> opportunity to grow and learn. She was also a wonderful mother and >> >> friend >> to so many. >> >> Thank you also for your kind words about ATS. We are honored and blessed >> >> to >> have an opportunity to work with people like YOU! >> >> Warmest thoughts, >> Kate >> Kate Williams Consulting >> at Adaptive Technology Services >> 629 Divisidero Street >> San Francisco, CA 94117 >> (415) 309-0905 .mobile >> (866) 564- 6650.toll free >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: adaptivetec-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >> [mailto:adaptivetec-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Wayne Scott >> Sent: Tuesday, April 13, 2010 7:36 PM >> To: adaptivetec@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >> Subject: [adaptivetec] Re: the loss of a member of our community >> >> I had her for a short as a counselor when I lived in California. I >> >> thought >> she was great. She was able to pull some strings for me to participate >> >> in >> the National statler center for carrerrs in Hospitality Service program. >> Plus, she was able to get me some of the equipment needed when I moved up >> here to Idaho. Wayne Scott >> "A merry heart does good like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the >> bones." >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: <peacefortheworld@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> >> To: <ats-employment@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> >> Cc: <adaptivetec@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> >> Sent: Tuesday, April 13, 2010 8:32 PM >> Subject: [adaptivetec] the loss of a member of our community >> >> >>>I am sure we all know that on Friday, Barbra Messinger passed away. She >>>>>>was >> >>>the counselor of many of us who allowed us to either participate in the >>>workshops put on by ATS, and receive the fine work and training of >>>>>>Adaptive >> >>>Tech. She leaves behind two young sons, 20 and 18. She will be sorely >>>missed. >>> For those of us who had her as a counselor and can attest to the fact >>> >>> that >> >>> she was one of the best I have ever had, I know there may be some >>> uncertainty as to what will happen next. I cannot answer that. All we >>> >>> can >>> do is know that the department is just learning of this as well and is >>> shocked by it also, and that all will be worked out in time. >>> Many blessings to all, >>> >>> Christina >>> PS, sorry to those who will be receiving this twice and who may not know >>> who this person is >>> >>> >>> >>> >> >> >> >> > >