[tri-wings] Re: two months

Dear Sweet Friend, 
    Each of us here know the pain you are going through. As  days go by it 
will become easier but NEVER go completely away. One thing that  you must know 
for sure is that God looked down upon every woman on this earth  and chose a 
perfect mother for Basia. No other person could have loved her or  cared for 
her 
as you. Knowing this gave me peace about my Mattison. We gave her  the best 
short life. I welcome the pain I feel with the loss of our daughter  because I 
fear if the pain goes away, her memory will too. Take it slow and  grieve as 
long as you need too but remember your family needs you too. I felt  that I was 
not allowed to feel anything when our daughter passed because  everyone else 
was a wreck. I thought I needed to "hold it together" for them. I  was always 
the strong one. I was so busy with comforting everyone else that I  denied my 
own sorrow. I felt like a robot. It finally caught up with me and I  spent 
time alone dealing with her loss. Today I reach out to families here that  have 
lost young children. It allows me to comfort them from a better perspective  
and keep my daughter's spirit alive. Feel free to email me if you ever need to  
talk. 
 
Stephanie 
mom to Whitney 18, Jonathan 12, Mattison 11-23-04 to  7-10-05

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