[tri-wings] Re: [tri-wings]Deanna was Re: Fw: thank you to all

 
 Deanna Warpehoski wrote:

>>. I'm sure you will find comfort here,
alot of these people are also on Tri-Family, so I know that it is a big help
to be able to come out and vent or just harrass Mandy.<< 

Deanna, first off you are spot on....it is a big help to vent and though the 
family list is wonderful(and I wouldnt ever leave it)its really nice that we 
have somewhere that is "ours".Does that make sense? Wings is our safe 
haven...say what we feel...share our hurt...share our tears...have a giggle if 
we want to.Sometimes I feel like I'm a spare part on the family list and mail 
gets deleted without a reply just because I dont know what its like to bring a 
special child home and I dont know(yet) what its really like to have to give 
the 24/7 care.Here is different because we all have shared the same hurt and 
are all experts in tears.I know, just like you do, what its like to have the 
empty arms/aching heart syndrome.Rambling now(must be the rare bit of sunshine 
we are having) ....but what I am trying to say is  Wings is ours!!!!! Sometimes 
I cross post and have a vent on family as well as here but that tends to be on 
everyday stuff and not directly to do with losing Gareth and Dominic. So vent 
away anyone, anytime.Its our list...we need use it.

Secondly Deanna, stop harrassing me!!!!!!I found two grey hairs yesterday(I 
knew I shouldnt have pulled that first one out...)and now I know its your fault 
LOL. Just kiddin with ya really....I thrive on being harrassed.I would think 
I'd upset you if you didnt .

big hugs



Mandy,mum to Matthew 9,Charlotte 8 , Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 14th'99) Dominic 
(Cystic Hygroma ^i^ July 23rd '00) and soon to be mum of our "special little 
someone" (England UK)

www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000/index.html

"Who then can so softly bind up the wound of another as he who has felt the 
same wound" - Thomas Jefferson 



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