[tri-wings] Re: tri-wings Digest V9 #52

Dawn there are no words to make any of this better. I'm so sorry. This must be 
such a difficult time for you all. I will keep you all in my thoughts, hoping 
that the rest of the pregnancy is as successful as possible.   Sending you huge 
hugs from scotland. Demi x

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tri-wings Digest        Sat, 21 Mar 2009        Volume: 09  Issue: 052

In This Issue:
                [tri-wings] our week of losses pg mentoined
                [tri-wings] Re: our week of losses pg mentoined
                [tri-wings] Re: our week of losses pg mentoined
                [tri-wings] Re: our week of losses pg mentoined

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From: "brenners" <brenners@xxxxxxxx>
Subject: [tri-wings] our week of losses pg mentoined
Date: Sat, 21 Mar 2009 11:23:23 -0400

Only this group understands like most don't. The anniversaries of our childrens 
losses were this past week.  Our daughter Rebecca who died last year on 3-28 
had her 21st birthday in heaven on 3-08.  I walked the mall by myself on 3-7.  
I couldn't be home taking care of the other 5 children it was a very sad day. 
Monday was our sons 9th birthday and the 7th anniversay of our Magdalena's 
death.  That night I dreamt of one of our twins that I'm pg with.  He was 
beautiful and about 5.  He had jet black hair and was very quiet.  Wed night I 
didn't "feel" right and woke up at 6am on Thur morn and "knew" we had lost the 
twin I had dreamt about. Fri I had a scheduled U/S and before the tech got two 
far she said "I'm so" and I cut her off and said we've lost baby b Gabriel 
haven't we?  She was stunnned that I knew like I did. They aren't sure why I 
lost him at 17 1/2 weeks.
The Perinatologist I had has different views than we do and I choose not to 
have an amnio. The Nucheal Fold Test at 12 weeks came back ''normal" and the 
sequestiol test was normal 2x.  So perhaps it was a twin-twin transfusion.  
Without the amnio she said we wouldn't know. So now I'm carrying Gabriel until 
we have Thomas.  The boys are idential twins in seperate sacks with a shared 
placeta.

We'll bury Gabriel with one of our daughters when the time comes.

I can't believe how sad I am at this loss and how it's affecting me.  I'm a 
person of very strong faith so I know where all of my deceased children are I 
just can't believe we have 6 in heaven.  I have met women who have had multiple 
miscarriages like 8 but oh my goodness!

So please pray for me and the rest of this pregnancy and my family.  This has 
been the breaking point for 4 of my children and we will start therapy with a 
Christian counselor who specializes in grief like this.

God bless,

Dawn

 Mother to 12. 5 here with one still growing inutero and 6 in heaven.  Oldest 
dd with Spina Bifida that died 3-28-08 at 20 and One full T-18 who lived 25 
days 7 years ago. 3 miscarriages and one inutero at 17 1/2 week twin last week.

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From: Sheila Helleson <hellesos@xxxxxx>
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: our week of losses pg mentoined
Date: Sat, 21 Mar 2009 19:15:47 -0500

(((((((((Dawn)))))))))
There are no words good enough to say how sorry I am.  Please accept  
my sympathy and extend it to your family.  My prayers are with you all.
                On Mar 21, 2009, at 10:23 AM, brenners wrote:

                I can't believe how sad I am at this loss and how it's 
affecting me.
                I'm a person of very strong faith so I know where all of my 
deceased
                children are I just can't believe we have 6 in heaven.

Of course, you will be sad.  I also know that I can't comprehend the  
depth of that sadness.  I'm glad that you are all getting counseling.

Always there for a Hug and a Prayer!

Hugs,
Sheila  Helleson

Minnesota Grandma to:
Hope (T-18 ^i^ 11-1-1) & Alison, AKA Ali (4); Cadence, AKA Cade (8)  
and Bridge (5)
Mom to Cheryl (& Denny);  Wade (& Charity)
Wife to Richard

"Shared joy is double joy, and shared sorrow is half-sorrow."--  
Swedish Proverb
Laughter and tears are the healing medicines of God.








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Date: Sat, 21 Mar 2009 19:46:51 -0500
From: Kim and Gloria <kgjorg@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: our week of losses pg mentoined

Quoting brenners <brenners@xxxxxxxx>:

> Only this group understands like most don't.

((((((Dawn))))))
I'm so sorry to hear this.  My prayers are with you and your family.
Gloria--mommy to angel Erin


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Date: Sat, 21 Mar 2009 22:51:46 -0400
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: our week of losses pg mentoined
From: Bess Raulerson <midwifehelp@xxxxxxx>

Dawn,
I am so very sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts and
prayers.
Bess


On Sat, Mar 21, 2009 at 8:46 PM, Kim and Gloria <kgjorg@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>wrote:

> Quoting brenners <brenners@xxxxxxxx>:
>
> > Only this group understands like most don't.
>
> ((((((Dawn))))))
> I'm so sorry to hear this.  My prayers are with you and your family.
> Gloria--mommy to angel Erin
>
>                  Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows
>                       www.trisomyonline.org
>                  Families Helping Families On-line
>



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