[tri-wings] Re: [tri-family] Hey eveyone

{{{{Nicole}}}}
It does hurt to hear that your family doesn't want to mention 
Kasidy--she was and is real, and always will be.  Don't ever let your 
family silence you!!!!  Sounds like your friend's decision about her 
baby's name shows that she cares for you and Kasidy a lot--that's very 
special to be giving her the same middle name.  Makes sense that she 
would ask you to be the godmother too, since that's the case.  I know 
it's gotta be extra rough right now to have two friends who are 
expecting and your heart is still aching.  We're here for you and 
praying for you!!!

Loren (wife to Kraig, mom to Keren, T18, 13 mo. and counting! :) )
Southeast Michigan
http://webpages.eng.wayne.edu/~ad6075



On Tuesday, November 25, 2003, at 02:22 PM, XoKaSiDy143oX@xxxxxxx wrote:

> Hi Everyone,
>    Well how is all doing , I am ok. Well I feel like all i do is work 
> and
> work. Well i have a question to ask u guys. See my cousin just had a 
> baby girl on
> Sun, of course i am happy but sad, I mean i don't show that to them, 
> but
> inside it bothers me, cuz i feel like my Kasidy should be here also, I 
> know it's
> selfish but i can't help it. Then my best friend is pregant and i 
> haven't been
> much support to her, but it's that i don't want to , but don't know 
> how to u
> kwo, she found out she is having a lil girl and she is namying her 
> Emily Aileen
> middle name like Kasidy's but then she asked me to be the godmother, 
> but I
> don't know if i can be a good one, and a part of me feels like she is 
> doing it
> out of pitty and I don't want that either, i know this isn't right but 
> i can't
> help it, I mean at times i feel so alon , my family never wants to 
> metion her
> name or talk about her and when i do they basically tell me to shut up 
> and it
> bothers me, i mean they act like she doesn't exsit and tell me to move 
> on but
> they don't understand it is hard. Like for christmas i made Kasidy a 
> stocking
> and my dad and sis think it is crazy but to me it's not, its like they 
> say
> your young don't worry u will have more. Yes it is tru i am only 20 
> but still
> that was my daughter that i gave birth to , I am sorry to ramble on 
> and on but i
> know i can vent to u gys and u guys wil listen to what i have to say. 
> Thanks
> for listening, it mans alot to me. Take care all.
>
>
> Nicole,
> Mom to my angel Kasidy ^i^ 7-28-03
> (Full Trisomy 13). Will always have you
> in my heart baby girl.
> visit us: www.babiesonline.com/babies/k/kasidy
>
>
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>
>



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