yes that is a good idea thanks i know it is very hard i am going to get a cake with his face on it and ballonons,and yes some cute flowers ,icecream and of course i will have his gifts forhim thanks forthe ideas your the best irellsmomjodi:)4eva^i^o^ -----Original Message----- From: Shelly Snyder [mailto:shellysnyder@xxxxxxxx] Sent: Tuesday, October 29, 2002 3:53 PM To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [tri-wings] Re: thanks for all your help ----- Original Message ----- From: <JWinchester@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > shelly how did you do your sons first birthday help, I'm sure we just did the usual, bringing flowers and balloons to the cemetery. I have a hard time thinking of different things too. I do like the idea that Gloria once gave. Releasing one (or more if you want) balloon and attaching a note to do a good deed in memory of Irell. Shelly - mommy to Brandon (7/10/92-8/8/92) Forever In Our Hearts http://remembering_brandon.tripod.com/ Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line