[tri-wings] Re: thank you to all

Dear Lisa,
   
  Thank you so much for your reply.  It filled me with such emotion to read it. 
 I'm so sorry that your Sofie died.  I will always remember and take comfort in 
that Sofie and Jill are both February saints in heaven.
   
  Nine years.  I'm so sorry.  I know that is my future.  A lifetime without 
Jill.  Sometimes I wonder if I can keep my sanity.  A guess that's what people 
mean when they say one day at a time, because thinking about the rest of my 
life without my baby girl is too painful to comtemplate.
   
  What are Sofie's dates?
   
  We were very fortunate to be able to take Jill home after she died.  I think 
I would have lost my mind completely if I was forced to leave her at the 
hospital.  As it was, leaving Jill at the funeral home that evening was very 
difficult.  That's a whole other story.  We ended up having her brought to a 
different one the next day where the people there (my cousins) were much more 
compassionate towards me and my family.
   
  Ruth (Jill's Mom 2/9/06 - 2/27/06)
  Lisa Minopoulos <lisamin@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
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Dear Ruth,=0D
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How far society has come, when our daughter sofie passed 9 years ago to t=
ri
13 we thought we had made milestone by just being able to be with her th=
e
whole time from her birth to her passing ( 28 days) and to stay with her
for hours after she passed and yet we felt so cheated to leave that
hospital without her . I am so glad you got this opportunity and I am so
thankful that you had these special moments after her passing. February w=
as
her passing and it holds as special month in our hearts and now I know sh=
e
has yet another angel to play with in heaven and I am so glad that time h=
as
changed peoples percepetions and you had this opportunity. My doctor was
also quite caring for us and allowed us ( like he could have stopped me) =
to
spend the last night with Sofie in our bed in the hospice as she took her
last breaths sometimes there are gods messengers working everywhere in
strange way.=0D
I wish you peace and comfort on your journey .=0D
Big hugs=0D
Lisa =0D
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From: Ruth Hadley=0D
Date: 07/29/06 09:11:56=0D
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx=0D
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: thank you to all=0D
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Hi Erin,=0D
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Your little son Tyler was born the day I buried my daughter Jill. She =
was
18 days old. The day Jill died, February 27, she was at home and had
stopped breathing. My husband brought her back with CPR and I called 911=
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The ambulance came and brought her to the hospital. Hospice stayed with =
us
the whole time in the hospital until Jill took her last breath in my arms=
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During that day at the hospital I had mentioned that I had wanted to take
Jill home and give her a bath and bring her to the funeral home myself, a=
nd
the hospice people took care of all that for us. I don't know what they
said, but we walked out of that hospital with our baby girl and brought h=
er
home.=0D
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Ruth (Jill's Mom 2/9/06 - 2/27/06)=0D
ekmaurer3@xxxxxxxxxxx wrote:=0D
Nancy,=0D
Your story is beautiful. Analee sounds like such a special girl. I am so
sorry for your loss.=0D
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Can i ask how you were allowed to have Analee at home after she died. Whe=
n
my son Tyler died in the hospital i wanted to take him but they said I
couldnt.=0D
He never got to be at home and I just wanted him to be there once.=0D
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Erin=0D
mom to Tyler Joel t-18 angel 3/3/06=0D
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