[tri-wings] Re: responce from letter from above

 
 JWinchester@xxxxxxxxxxxxx wrote:

>.i always include my anglein everything we do his name is
also on cards too.<<

Jody, thats wonderful that you can do that. I think it depends very much on the 
type of person we are and how we cope.If someone says they are sorry to me then 
I just crack and I have tried to deal with it but it still makes me teary after 
more than two years so I protect myself by being selective over who I tell. I 
will talk for hours about my boys and they will never ever be forgotten but I 
just  personally  find it difficult to deal with the reaction.And 9 times out 
of 10 , tell someone that you lost a baby and they change the subject to 
something like the weather and that hurts me even more...When I've chosen to 
tell someone about my angels I want to tell the whole story and they often dont 
want to listen because they dont then know what to say in reply.

big hugs

 

 



Mandy,mum to Matthew 9,Charlotte 8 , Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 14th'99) Dominic 
(Cystic Hygroma ^i^ July 23rd '00) and soon to be mum of our "special little 
someone" (England UK)

www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000/index.html

"Who then can so softly bind up the wound of another as he who has felt the 
same wound" - Thomas Jefferson 



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