Kathryn, Thank you, I didn't realize how hard this would be and how much I needed to know that there are other families who have lost a child who had some of the same problems that our son did. Zachary was born at 23 weeks. We didn't know anything was wrong until 20wks into the pregnacy. Zachary was our second child. We have a daughter Samantha who is now 4 and she has been our strength. We live in Kansas. Thank you again, I haven't been able to talk with anyone besides my husband about Zachary. I am grateful I now know of a place that I can Sincerely Chris and Jennifer parents of Zachary Thomas 07/06/00 full T-18 _________________________________________________________________ Add photos to your messages with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line