Hi Melissa, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Alexandria is such a beautiful name! My name is Nancy and I live close to Edmonton. My son, Oliver, was born June 5, 2000 at home. He had trisomy 13 as well. We took him to the NICU at the Royal Alex hospital. Is that where you were? I'm sorry you had to be so far from home. That must have made things especially difficult. My son lived for 15 days. I look forward to talking to you more. You can email me offlist as well (if you like) as I'm not too good at keeping up with list traffic, but I'll try to watch for you! :) Nancy _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com/intl.asp Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line