[tri-wings] Re: my grief Long

Dear Jill,
Your grief is very different to your husbands or to anyone else's for that 
matter because it's a very individual thing.
You said "My husband from the very beginning could tell Daniels story to 
anyone, I think he enjoyed seeing the look on peoples faces when they found 
out we lost a child. He wanted them to feel the same pain he was feeling." 
Do you really think this is true or do you think maybe your husband was 
proud of Daniel and just wants the world to know he actually has three 
wonderful sons.
Grief is a process and it can sometimes be agonisingly slow or sometimes 
feel like it was somebody else the whole thing happened to.  We also had 
another baby straight away and Jono has been my healing baby (15 now and the 
most gorgeous boy!!).  But I still miss Louise like crazy some days, there's 
not a second of the day goes by that I don't think about her.  Daniel will 
always be a part of your family because you are determined to honour his 
memory.  Be kind to you (and your hubby)
{{{Jill}}}

Don't worry about the world coming to an end tomorrow it's already tomorrow 
in Australia
Charles Schultz

"Life is like a box of chocolates you never know what you're gonna get!"
Forrest Gump's mother.

Tracey, <///>< RM/RN Mum to Jenny (18) currently 'wandering in the 
wilderness', Louise T18 (in heaven since July 1990), Jono (15), Jesse (12), 
Jimmy & Pippa angel dogs, Millie (our faithful girl) and wife to David my 
soulmate & best friend for 26 years now!!! :O))

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