[tri-wings] Re: just need to share(pam)

Ambre,

Tracey is so right. When my dad died, I know that I seemed cruel to my
mother. Her grief was more than I could handle and my grief made me pull
into myself. Remember the Lord's Prayer, ". . . forgive us our =
trespasses as
we forgive those who trespass against us." In other words, if you =
forgive
your husband, you will free him from his guilt and he will love you for =
it.
I promise that's the way it works. Be nice and give him some room. This =
is a
terrible time. Vent on the list not on your husband. We've all been =
there
and we do care. You are in our prayers.=20

Paul
Grandpa to Angels
Annalis Renee Brown T18- April 9, 2004
Autumn Marie Brown- Feb. 20, 2003

-----Original Message-----
 On Behalf Of David & Tracey Pass
Sent: Wednesday, March 30, 2005 4:25 PM
=20
Dear Ambre,
It's very hard sometimes for men because we want to talk about things =
and=20
they don't seem to need to, we grieve differently...  I suggest finding =
a=20
really good counsellor for you (maybe hubby too if he'll go) he's =
grieving=20
but it seems he doesn't know how to channel it so it's coming out =
against=20
you.  There are phases of grief and anger is one of them.  We cannot =
place a

time frame on our grief because we all grieve through the phases at=20
different paces.  I know it's tough give yourself time.........



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