[tri-wings] Re: just need to share (pam)

I've been a lurker for a long time but feel compelled to add to this
email discussion.

I lost my best friend older sister to domestic violence on Dec 18, 1994.
It came as a shock to many, after all she was a successful advertising
executive, married to a man who attended church with her every Sunday,
and stayed home to take care of the kids.  She decided to leave him and
he couldn't handle it.  Unfortunately the coward was too afraid to take
his own life, could only handle taking hers. =20

It was a difficult period in our lives already.  We lost my
brother-in-law in a car accident in Jan 1990, our angel Katie Lyn T-18
died at 4 months in June 1992, my dad died of cancer at the young age of
66 in July 1994, and my sister died just 6 months later.

Life is way too short to suffer in an unhappy marriage.  In fact, life
is way too short to suffer at all.  Respect yourself, know what makes
you happy, and seek that out.

-----Original Message-----
From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of BOSS2BURR@xxxxxxx
Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2005 7:42 PM
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: just need to share (pam)

Pam,
    To tell you the truth, I don't know if I'm safe with him any more.
Where=20
did my loving husband go? I don't understand why he is so hateful
towards me.=20
Then, 10mins. later he acts like nothing happen. I tried telling him how

lonely I feel but, he just doesn't seem to care. He's never home more
then an hour=20
at a time. I want to stay and work things out but then I'm so unhappy
and he=20
brings me down. He's never hit me, this is the first for him to act like
this.=20
It almost makes me think his on something. I'm on meds. for my nerves. I
have=20
a issue with cleaning all the time after work. I go and talk to someone
every=20
Thursday. We just got him an appointment. It's next week. I just want to
wait=20
and see if he'll go and if he takes his meds. right. I'm not going to
circle=20
around his needs and wants. I need to think of myself and my son. I'm
always=20
worrying about him and what he is doing. Why, I have no clue. If he
doesn't go=20
and talk to someone about his problem with me then, I'm leaving. Which
really=20
sucks. I love him and I want this to work but I can't keep letting him
walk all=20
over me. I feel so used. He makes me feel down and sorry for myself. I
have=20
never felt like this before. Email me Pam if you get a chance.=20

Ambre: Mother to Gage(9) & Gabriella T-13 full: 10/6/04-12/1/04


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