[tri-wings] Re: introduction - Barb, Lore, Artese &Lizabeth(may be upsetting to some)

Dear Jill,

I thought I was reading my own story there for a minute. My darling S-I-LAW
did exactly the same thing came in and was soo worried about her unborn
child then proceeded to tell us a day later that her andher husband had gone
in that morning to have an in depth scan so the same thing would not happen
to them and they would have options not like us, ( Sofie was undiagnosed tri
13 until 5 days after her birth). I have never forgiven her for that and our
relationship never the same. I know its hard and we try to be so forviging
and thoughtful of others but sometimes I feel enough is enough. Just wanted
to vent.
Lisa
Mum to Alex 11, Sofie (tri 13 aged 28 days forever)1997, Dion 7 and Georgia
aged 3 ( this week)
      

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Subject: [tri-wings] Re: introduction - Barb, Lore, Artese &Lizabeth(may be
upsetting to some)


Mandy wrote  they are normal for being angry that the person in front of 
them in the grocery queue exclaims in a loud voice to their screaming 
toddler "I wish you had never been born".
 
 
That reminds of 2 days after Daniel was born and we had just been told by 
the Geneticist that he thought Daniel had T-13 and then we really found out 
what that meant. A lifetime without my son. My parents where with my husband

and I in the room when the geneticist was there. They left in tears so we 
could be alone and then my husband left to go find them. well my Sister in 
law came in she was to work that day as a postpartum nurse. I am unsure who 
told her about Daniel. But here I was in my hospital room, after being told 
that my son would not be having any firsts, like firsts step, first tooth, 
etc. Well she come in and starts crying that SHE is so worried about HER 
baby who SHE did not WANT to be PREGNANT with. It was a oops child. She was 
crying because she thought that could happen to her child. That she was 
close to being 35 (she was only 33 at the time) So I go over there to 
console her and all I want to say was hay your child is safe. I was just 
told that my child would most likely not make it to his first birthday, and 
with his health we might not be able to take him home!!!!!  We were blessed 
to be able to take him home with us for almost 2 weeks before he passed 
away.
 
Sorry still angry at her for that and a few other things like her kids never

did get to meet Daniel and they did not bring there kids to the funeral 
because it might be hard on them because they did not get to meet him. They 
were told 4 day before he died that he was not doing so good and to come and

see him!!. Sorry still angry over that too.
 
Jill Mommy to Van IV (07/01/01), Daniel T-13 (09/11/03-10/08/03) and Douglas

(11/11/04)
Wife to Van III (11/02/96)


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