[tri-wings] Re: hello everone.. Good news

Dear Nicole,
Guilt is a normal part of the grieving process along with denial and anger.
I was angry at God for the longest time.  I couldn't pray or anything and it
was a bit hard to move away from God because we were at Bible College at the
time of Louise's birth/death.  Then we moved into a pastorate the year after
she was born.  But it shouldn't offend anyone that you are mad at God least
of all God because he knows your pain and He will accept you back with open
arms when you come back, which you will.  Because He is a loving and
forgiving God that's just the way He is.
As far as coping with the upcoming holidays it is going to be tough
especially being your first and what you do to remember Kasidy is up to you.
Some have ornaments made with their angels name on them.  I have just put
lots of angels on my tree and every one of them reminds me of our precious
Louise.  Family may or may not want to remember Kasidy but try not to let
this upset you as everyone grieves differently.  And remember grieving is a
process that takes time and cannot be turned off with the flick of a
switch.... allow yourself time.


Be kind to you...
God Bless

"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get!"
Forrest Gump's mother.

"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today.  It's already tomorrow
in Australia"
Charles Schultz.

Tracey RN/CM <///><, Mum to Jennie 16, Louise T18 (in heaven July 2nd 1990),
Jono 12, Jesse 9, Jimmy the angel dog, Millie the magnificent (Dogus
Ecstaticus), Pippa the perfect (puppius perfecticus) and most grateful wife
to David my soulmate and best friend.
Bobs Farm, NSW, Australia
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