[tri-wings] Re: havnt been around for a long time.(pg)long

Julie wrote
>>> i know ill never replace craig but i dont want to ,just need to give
callum a baby brother or sister.
> i miss him very much and wonder what if and there never is an answer at
the end off it.<<

Julie, lovely to see your name appear.Can't believe how quickly your
pregnancy seems to have gone...28 weeks already !!You are completely right
in saying you will never replace Craig.Nothing ever will replace the
children we have lost but I do believe that having other children or having
a child after a loss helps tremendously.My heart goes out to those that have
no other children..I simply cannot begin to imagine their pain.(sorry I
digressed)."What if " has to be two of the most dangerous words in the
english language...we all say it and think it but all it does is makes us
hurt more.It's hard to let go of the what if's but whatever happened, has
happened and beating ourselves up isn't going to change anything.I believe
the sooner we begin to let go of the what if's ,the sooner we begin to
heal.Hope this makes sense....




>>> conrats mandy on your news off both the wedding and baby .<<
Thanks Julie

hugs
Mandy, mum to Matthew(10),Charlotte (9) and my two angels Gareth (t18 ^i^
14/11/99)and Dominic (CH ^i^ 23/7/00) and my little pumpkin seed EDD 19 Apr
2004,England,UK

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