Beth,
(((HUGS))) Sorry to hear you are having a time of it..especially now so close
to Alec's birth. I know how you feel about your family member naming her
daughter Cassidy...When I was pregnant with Tiffany after Brittany gained her
wings, I was talking to my Aunt about what to name the baby and she said to
name her Brittany and I said No way because that was Brittany's name and she
said.. "So what, she's dead" like she never exsisted at all. I asked her if one
of her daughter's died would she used the same name and she said that was not
the same thing since her daughter's were alive and well and Brittany only lived
two days so why not use the name again?? She totally didn't understand!!
I hope things get better for you..as for your husband's SGT..he needs a
clue...and not to bash any men on the list..but sometimes men don't understand
that you bond with your child as soon as the pregnancy test comes back
positive. Sorry to the men on the list..I don't mean to offend!
Love,
Robyn
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