[tri-wings] Re: getting things off my chest

 ((((((Beth))))))
  Beth Robichaud <bethrobichaud@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: 

>> As far as our daughter was concerned, he said that you can't get that 
emotionally attached to someone that was only with you for less then two 
days. Basically to get over it already!<<

Beth, I'm sorry you are going through this right now and all I can say is does 
that man have a heart? what garbage !!! My boys never made it to birth but it 
doesnt make me miss them any less...as soon as you do that test and its 
positive the hopes and dreams of a future are there and whether our children 
are simply passed off as late period or whether they live long enough to have 
children and grandchildren, they are still our children and the grief at losing 
them is always there:-( Just the pain lessens with time..how much time depends 
on each individual..itsover two years now since my first angel touched my womb 
but not a day passes that I dont think of him and his brother and most days I 
still cry.

>> She had a baby girl about 3 years ago >>. When I talk to her it is like her 
>> attitude is like, Don't feel to special bc I had it first. <<

(((Beth)))) 

>>That was bad enough but she doesn't even take care of the baby. Passes it on 
to what ever relative wants her for the night. It just makes me so mad!<<

Ain't that the way?? My SIL tolds me at the weekend that she is pregnant 
(again) and she smokes like a chimney ....I told her to consider her baby and 
she turned and said 'Its ok...any defects and we get shut of it..no beastie 
baby for me"Life seems to have a cruel edge when some would give their right 
arm to be a mummy and others just dont care and pop babies out like peas.


>>I'm sorry to go on and on but I really needed to get all of that off of my 
chest. And I know that you all are really great listeners. So if you made it 
this far, THANKS!!!!<<<

hey Beth thats what we are here for...good times and bad.I know we all have a 
joke and heck we need to have some sunshine in our lives but first and foremost 
we are here to help one another find that rainbow's end.So go on as often as 
you like...I do LOL

big hugs



Mandy, mum to Matthew 9,Charlotte 8, and my two angels Gareth (t18 ^i^ Nov 
14th'99) and Dominic (cystic hygroma July 23 '00) 
England UK
www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000

Your future depends on your dreams".....So go to sleep




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