[tri-wings] Re: can someone please tell me why??????????????????
- From: "Paul Farmer" <pfarmer@xxxxxxxxxxx>
- To: <tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Mon, 31 Jan 2005 05:33:12 -0800
Megan,
You have great questions. Questions like these are what make you =
special.
They need to be answered for you to be the person you are meant to be.=20
Megan, there are bad things that happen to good people in this world. =
The
only guarantee that we all have is that we will die. We just don't know
when. Your little boy did experience pain. But he escaped much of the =
pain
that we have to go through. He is happy and he realizes who you are.=20
Hebrews 12:1 talks about a great cloud of witnesses that surrounds us. I
believe your little boy is watching you and knows your love for him. =
Sure,
you don't get to hug him and change his messy diapers and give angel =
kisses
to his skinned shins, but if you are quiet, you will feel him near you.=20
In today's climate of political correctness, we aren't supposed to talk
about God. Well, how in the world would you ever answer questions like =
this
without talking about God. I believe that He sent His Son to show us his
love in a very tangible way (Isaiah 53). Relax. Take a deep breath. Feel =
His
love for you. That is the first step. Just be real. Get rid of all the
psychological bunk that is going around in your mind. It is ok to yell =
and
scream these questions. You should see my bible. The cover is almost off
because of the way I treat it. But your answers are there. God cares for =
you
personally. You have to talk to Him personally. Not through someone =
else. It
has to be face to face.=20
The God I love and serve is a big God. I know from personal experience =
that
he does care. He doesn't have to be defended. Just be sincere and honest
when you talk to him. I guarantee you will get your answers. And you =
will
know personally that he does love you. He also loves the little boy you =
lost
for a short time. I believe that you will be reunited with him on the =
other
side.
God bless you and love you. All of us on this list share your pain in
different ways and I guarantee you that you are in our thoughts and =
prayers.
Let us know how your new baby boy is doing so we can share your joy.=20
Paul
Grandpa to Angels
Annalis Renee Brown T18- April 9, 2004
Autumn Marie Brown- Feb. 20, 2003
-----Original Message-----
On Behalf Of megsie
hey everyone have a few questions i am due to have a baby boy in two =
days=20
and i am scared as all but i keep thinking about my little boy i lost 5=20
years ago why did he have to be born like that why cant people answer my =
questions why did he have through pain why did he look like he did why =
was=20
he taken away from me........
sorry for venting like this
megan=20
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