Same thing happen to me today. A lady from one of the libraries that I don't
stop at much, asked me how the baby was. I told her that she had passed. Of
course you could tell she was very uncomfortable. Then, she asked how she had
died. That is the worst. I told her she had T-13 full. She didn't know what
that
was, so I went into a five min. talk about Trisomy. It was easy, until I left
and got into my van. Then, it hit hard. Gabby will never be with me. She is
gone forever. It hurt so bad. I cried all day long. God, I miss her. How are
you suppose to answer someone with out coming off as a _____. So, my day really
was hard. Coming home to a house that my baby was in all of her life. Makes me
closer to her. But, days like today are unspeakable. I know your pain.
Ambre: Mother to Gage(9) & Gabriella T-13 full: 10/6/04-12/1/04
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