[tri-wings] Re: angel days-domhoffs and dominicis

 
Pam, 

Thoughts and well wishes right back to you.  The day went by with more
difficulty than I had expected.  I tried to make a nice day, but found it
hard to even get out of bed.   I did a lot of crying.  My family came by to
light Joey's memeorial  Christmas tree.  I almost missed it.  I couldn't
muster up the strength and told them to light it without me.  I finally
ventured to the doorway and looked out at the treee shining in the night
surrounded by some of my family and friends.    My daughter came in full of
joy and excitement "c'mon Mom!  Come see Joey's tree!   It is shining with
stars!   Joey is looking sown smiling!  Come see it Mom!"  She dragged me by
the hand.  She returned me to life.   I clutched one of Joey's blankets and
cried as  I looked at various stars and pictures places as well as those
thatI had been putting together from many of the list group.  I will take
some pictures and share them soon.   I just could not believe how much it
still hurts after a year has passed.  I had so wanted to celebrate his life
and not get swallowed up by grief again, but I guess it is to be expected. 
My husband has been very down lately especially as he is still not working. 
I am at a loss to help him.  

If anyone has any magic words to help the healing process I would welcome
them! 

Peace, 

Lynn Mom to Angel Joey T-18 (4/1504-11/27/05) and Earth Angel Marina Lee
T-21(7 1/2)


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From:  "pam&darrell" <bifman@xxxxxxxxxxxx>
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Subject:  [tri-wings] angel days-domhoffs and dominicis
Date:  Thu, 30 Nov 2006 09:10:50 -0500
>just wanted to say that i was thinking of all of you on your boys' angel
days but could not say so then.  it was a little too close to home-
christianand tyler share a day and joey's is the day before.  i hope the day
was peaceful and as easy to manage as possible
>
>with love,
>pam, tyler's mum
>salem ontario
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