[tri-wings] Re: Why I left

>I told Shelly (my roommate) that it would be nice if 
>a neon sign would drop out of the sky and point me in 
>the right direction. I feel like I have totally messed 
>up my life and I hate this feeling. I'm just not sure 
>what to do next.

Dear Stacey,

Do you really mean it?  If you do here's what you're gonna
do next.  Send me your birth data and both of your husband's
at fawna33@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (don't want to give Mandy apoplexy,
in her condition, by posting it on list).  And I don't want 
to know which man is which, so just randomly assign them to
the Man A & Man B forms below, but YOU remember who's who.

Stacey
Birthday  
    Month:             
    Day:       
    Year:
Time of birth:
    Hour:
    AM or PM:
Location of birth:  
    Town: 
    State or Province:         
    Country:

Man A:
Birthday  
    Month:             
    Day:       
    Year:
Time of birth:
    Hour:
    AM or PM:
Location of birth:  
    Town: 
    State or Province:         
    Country:

Man B:
Birthday  
    Month:             
    Day:       
    Year:
Time of birth:
    Hour:
    AM or PM:
Location of birth:  
    Town: 
    State or Province:         
    Country:


If at all possible to get times and places it will help a lot, 
but with just the date I can at least get basic placements.  
Moon would unfortunately be iffy though as it moves about 13 
degrees/day.  Send me the data and I'll look at the big 5
compatibility synastry aspects for you with each of them.  (With 
times & locations I could also run a Davidson composite report.
This takes the midpoints of all your placements.  Sort of a
look at meeting half way in the relationship....) 

For basic compatibility between couples as shown by planetary
positions, I look primarily to five different combinations of 
planets:  (1)a Sun-Moon, (2) Moon-Moon, (3) Sun-Sun, (4) 
Mercury-Mercury, and (5) Venus-Mars.

Moon-Sun:  The aspect between the Moon in one chart and the Sun 
in another shows the capacity for the Moon person to nurture the 
ego of, and be sympathetic to, the Sun person. The Moon-Sun aspect 
needs to be present for a partner to make the other partner feel 
good about him or herself.  If one partner's Moon is in favorable/
harmonious aspect to the other partner's Sun, the Moon person will 
support the Sun person's efforts to express him or herself.  For 
instance, in group social situations where both partners are present, 
the Sun partner will be telling a story, and all the while the Moon 
partner's head will be nodding in agreement and even adding to the 
story at times.  While an inharmonious one would be illustrated by 
the Moon person disagreeing or getting offended by the Sun person's 
story or the manner in which it is told.

Moon-Moon:  This is the aspect that shows how successful a couple
will be at living together.  The Moon shows the nature of a 
person's daily habit patterns and mood cycles.  When the Moon of 
one partner harmoniously aspects the Moon of another, there is a 
natural ability to go through the nitty-gritty actions of daily 
life without irritating or offending the other partner.  For 
instance, both partners might be equally into house cleaning and 
keeping the floor vacuumed. Or, they will share the same tastes in 
food.  The Moon shows the little things in life that may seem 
insignificant when life is viewed as a whole, but which can 
certainly be significant when two people are sharing a home.  For 
instance, with an inharmonious Moon cross-aspect one person's habit 
of leaving the cap off the toothpaste may totally annoy the other 
person.  Or, one person may insist on leaving the radio or TV on 
all the time, while the other person may prefer total quiet.
  
Sun-Sun:  This is the well-known aspect referred to in Sun-sign
compatibility books.  It shows how compatible the egos of the two 
people are with each other.  When the two Suns are in harmonious 
aspect, the partners can each express themselves to the fullest 
while in each other's company and work on creative projects 
together.  However, when the Suns are in inharmonious aspect,
there are often ego conflicts resulting in feelings of being 
trampled upon or belittled by the other person.

Mercury-Mercury:  This combination denotes how well two people 
can communicate with one another.

Venus-Mars:  Cross-aspects between Venus and Mars show sexual
compatibility.  Generally speaking, of the five aspect patterns, 
I consider this one to be the clincher for the longevity of a 
relationship.  If a couple does not have a Venus-Mars contact 
between their charts, then they must have some other exceptionally 
strong aspects involving Venus or Mars and another planet to 
compensate, in order for the relationship to last.  I save the 
Venus-Mars combination as the last aspect discussed, not because 
it is the least important, but because it is the most important.  
This aspect is the first thing I look for in the charts of couples,  
as it is sexual compatibility which could be said to be the glue 
that keeps a relationship together. 

Fawna

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