[tri-wings] Re: Trying to cope

Hi Sonya!  thanks for writning me back so soon.  I so sorry for your loss.  I'm 
sure that Kahlil was very special to you.  Other than time, what else do you do 
to cope with all this?  i do have other family members to help me out, but they 
really aren't very much help.  Noone knows what to say or do.  I just keep 
hearing the same positive reenforcements and it doesn't help.  What do you do?
Sonya Nuri <oak_roots@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:  Hi Nikia. I'm Sonya. i lost a son in 
january. he was ten minutes old. it does hurt. it hurts a lot. poeple here say 
it lessens with time, and so far they are right. it lessesns in teeny tiny 
bits, over massive amounts of time, but it does lessen. i still think of kahlil 
every day. i still miss him every day. i am sorry that you have to be mising 
jason. i hope you ahve some support besides your husband, for when he is away.
--Sonya
Nikia Grant wrote:Hello. My name is Nikia and my husband and I lost our son, 
Jason, to Trisomy 13 on September 5, 2006. Jason was born September 2 and 
weighed 4lbs and 14 ounces. He was such a handsome little guy! When he was 
born, the doctors wisked him away. I never got to hold him that day or the next 
one. I didn't understand what could be wrong seeing how I went to every 
doctor's appointment, ate right, exercised, and got plenty of rest. The doctor 
never suspected any type of problems. I am really having a hard time with this. 
I want to be strong for my family, but I find it really hard at times. My 
husband's name is Terrence and we have a 2 year old named Kalia. I really want 
her to be okay and not see me being so sad all the time. She's like a sponge 
and picks up on every emotion and every action. Jason was here only 3 days and 
already he has had a very big impact on so many people in so many ways. It's 
amazing. I know that God
doesn't make mistakes and we will never
understand why he had to go, still, it all hurts really bad. Worst of all, my 
husband is in the Army and he's set to be deployed in November for a whole 
year! How exactly am I supposed to deal with all this? I would appreciate if 
anyone would write me back. 
Nikia Grant
Dallas, Tx

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