[tri-wings] Re: Trying to cope

Hi Nikia. I'm Sonya. i lost a son in january. he was ten minutes old.  it does 
hurt. it hurts a lot. poeple here say it lessens with time, and  so far they 
are right. it lessesns in teeny tiny bits, over massive  amounts of time, but 
it does lessen. i still think of kahlil every day.  i still miss him every day. 
i am sorry that you have to be mising  jason. i hope you ahve some support 
besides your husband, for when he  is away.
  --Sonya
Nikia Grant <bluelegacy_22@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:Hello.  My name is Nikia and my 
husband and I lost our son, Jason, to Trisomy  13 on September 5, 2006. Jason 
was born September 2 and weighed 4lbs  and 14 ounces. He was such a handsome 
little guy! When he was born, the  doctors wisked him away. I never got to hold 
him that day or the next  one. I didn't understand what could be wrong seeing 
how I went to every  doctor's appointment, ate right, exercised, and got plenty 
of rest. The  doctor never suspected any type of problems. I am really having a 
hard  time with this. I want to be strong for my family, but I find it really  
hard at times. My husband's name is Terrence and we have a 2 year old  named 
Kalia. I really want her to be okay and not see me being so sad  all the time. 
She's like a sponge and picks up on every emotion and  every action. Jason was 
here only 3 days and already he has had a very  big impact on so many people in 
so many ways. It's amazing. I know that  God
 doesn't make mistakes and we will never
  understand why he had to go, still, it all hurts really bad. Worst of  all, 
my husband is in the Army and he's set to be deployed in November  for a whole 
year! How exactly am I supposed to deal with all this? I  would appreciate if 
anyone would write me back. 
  Nikia Grant
  Dallas, Tx
   
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