[tri-wings] Re: ((Trisha))Re: He hit me, what do I do?


> Trisha,
  I am so sorry for all you're having to go thru- It seemed to happen similar 
here when we lost Kaden. When you can least deal with another bad thing, that's 
when more stuff happens.My EX., and two sons, 28 & 14 were least prepared to 
deal with everything.Melissa & I had been on the lists for 2 mos. and had 
talked everyday so I felt we did have more time to prepare.  We had addiction, 
legal & many other issues all at the same time.My oldest son's evil ex 
girlfriend even tried to get a restraint order against me after she sent 
Melissa flowers for Kaden's memorial. None of it made sense, I wanted nothing 
to do with her. Why someone would choose a time like that to be crazy?  I also 
was going thru my divorce.  I felt like I was living in the twilight zone and 
was just about over the edge myself.The saying" what doesn't kill us makes us 
stronger"is so true.  As time passed and we've made it thru some issues it's 
not quite as bad.  What is your feeling on his actions? Is this his character 
or way out?? Definatly the best thing you can do is keep talking about it and 
don't ever be intimidated into covering it up. Change produces change and if it 
could turn into a cycle then definate bounderies have to be made. We all have 
to decide what they'll be and your heart will have to be in it. No one should 
ever be hit and tho in his mind he's wittled it down to a push- what he's done 
to you is inflict more pain on an already unbearable loss. Please find someone 
you trust close to confide in and do not hesitate to call them if it ever 
happens again. We will keep you and Charles in our prayers for patience, 
understanding and healing as the days pass.
We are ALWAYS here for you and as Deanna suggested- There are many Earth Angels 
always willing to lend a hand. Reach out to someone there and they will also be 
your support.
Love & Hugs,
LouAnn
York,NE
Grammy to Maelin Ann, 2 Kaden James ^i^9/04/02 our heavenly Angel full t-13 and 
new Baby due July :o)
> From: "Fawna Lockwood" <fawna33@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
> Date: 2003/02/28 Fri PM 01:55:53 CST
> To: <tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
> Subject: [tri-wings] Re: He hit me, what do I do?
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