My favourites, But you were expecting it... I'm glad to see you're over it... It's for the best.... You have Daniel...(my baby son) At least you had a chance to love her.... -----Original Message----- From: Jimamy [mailto:jimamy@xxxxxxx]=20 Sent: Saturday, September 27, 2003 12:53 AM To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [tri-wings] Re: To say or not to say......that's the question!!!= Mandy, I've been lurking but I can't resist: At least you have two others........ You're probably better off...... She's in a much better place..... You can always have another one.... At least you didn't get a chance to know her.... I know how you feel.... You'll get over it. =20 and 2 weeks later You're not over it yet? Of course there are a lot more but those seem to be the main ones I remem= ber. What I always tried to do when someone said that to me was remember = that they really didn't have a clue how we felt and they were saying the = first or only thing that came to their mind to try to comfort us. They we= ren't trying to hurt us....... just console us and most of them didn't kn= ow how. But of course when we are hurting we don't want to hear any of th= at. Jim, husband of Amy, daddy of Amanda ( 10 ), Katherine ( 6 ), and Jessica= =20Nicole ( Full T18- 4/21/99) - our little angel who we love dearly; Pen= sacola, FL. Meet us at http://www.trisomyonline.org/french.htm =20 Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows =20 www.trisomyonline.org =20 Families Helping Families On-line =93This e-mail is sent on the Terms and Conditions that can be accessed b= y Clicking on this link http://www.vodacom.net/legal/email.asp " Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line