----- Original Message ----- From: "Mandy" <baby2angels2000@xxxxxxxx> To: "tri-wings" <tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 1:30 PM Subject: [tri-wings] To say or not to say......that's the question!!! > If we were to compile a list of things to say and things not to say to bereaved parents, what would you like to see on there? Top of my list is "At least she's a whole person now." Erin was a "whole person" (whatever the hell that's supposed to mean anyway!) when she was with us. Had she lived, we'd have done whatever was needed to care for her. Hugs to all, Gloria--mommy to angel Erin http://remembering_erin.tripod.com/ "Each day is better than the next." Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line