[tri-wings] To Pam with an open ear

Pam,
I am sorry you are having problems with you doc. =20
January I started seeing one myself although lucky for me just talking
to him is helping me. I remember before seeing him I didn't know what to
think and every one kept talking him up saying he was a great doctor.
Well my first visit with him had me pissed off and it was mainly because
he kept saying my vagina was over worked.  I mean come on who says
that... I was upset because I felt like he was obsessed with it, I mean
come on he could have said body instead.  Oh well I decided not to judge
him by the first appointment and it has gotten a little better.  There
is one thing I have learned not to discuss with him and that is my
wanting to try again. He doesn't get how I want to lose weight but if I
get pregnant I am ok with that.=20
Well with him being a guy I can understand how he doesn't get it. If I
gain weight because I am pregnant that is expectable but if I am not
pregnant then I want to focus on losing and trying for that baby.  He
keeps asking me if I am going to continue taking my Clomid and I keep
telling him I don't know yet. Well that wasn't a truth because I am
going to keep taking it I just don't like his lectures so I have decided
not to tell him.  Oh well sorry I just wanted to share some of my
experiences with my doc with you.=20
I don't think I would like your doc either if she talked to me like she
did to you.=20
Have you thought about switching docs?=20
I can understand you stressors but why didn't she discuss them with you
instead of skipping over them? I don't get that you would think a good
doc would listen to you and talk about the issues that are bothering you
not skip over them.  I go back to what I was saying earlier I think you
need to try and find a new doc.  =20
I don't know if any of this helps you but I want you to know I kind of
know what you are going through with you doc, although luckily for me
mine has dropped his infatuation with my vagina. LOL I wish you the best
and if you need anything or just someone to talk to I am here...=20
Marianne
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