[tri-wings] Re: Tiffany & Stacie

on 6/24/04 2:01 AM, Stacie wrote:
> Can I ask you a question, since this is new for you also?   Have you put away
> Ashley's things yet?  I've only put away the clothes that she didn't wear very
> often.  All of our favorites - I haven't touched.  Her bassinet is just the
> way it was.  I tried to put it away today...but let myself get too busy.

Tiffany & Stacie,
I don't know how common this is, but it is the way my daughter and s-i-l
have dealt with it.  Hope's angel day was 11-1-01.  But with a name like
Hope we could all find things with her name on them all the time.  Right
now, Hope's bedroom is just like it was 2 1/2 years ago (or with even more
memorabila).  But two weeks ago, they actually talked about what to put away
and what to use.  Cheryl wanted to get a curio cabinet for their  'piano'
room.  She wanted to keep things, but yet to have them put away.  Denny
surprised her (and me) by saying, "We aren't putting everything away, are
we?"  Their baby is due the end of August.  TIME is whenever it feels right
for you!!!!  And we  will all see what things Denny wants to use or leave in
the room. 

I apologize for my typing.  I've tried to catch every mistake, but I'm not
sure I have.  I had rotaor cuff surgery - at its worst - last Thursday.
Should have had it done 5 years ago and I wouldn't be facing this extensive
therapy & pain  now.  Sometimes we make the wrong choices!!!


Sheila
MN Grandma to 4:  Hope  T-18  (11-1-1), Cadence, 3 on March 27th, Bridge
born Feb 29th, and Hope's brother or sister in August, 2004.  



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