(((((((((((((((Penny)))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry to read your sad news. My opinion FWIW is that yes I would let Hannah go.Older kids I would say give them the choice but that's not possible in your case...so I would go with a yes.I know she may not understand right now but at least you all can tell her about her Great Grandfather and how she was there to say goodbye in her own way. I know what Megan means.....I dread funerals now . Thinking of you all Mandy, mum to Matthew(11),Charlotte (9) and my two angels Gareth (t18 ^i^ 14/11/99)and Dominic (CH ^i^ 23/7/00) and my little pumpkin seed EDD 19 Apr 2004,England,UK http://www.geocities.com/baby2angels2000 Some stop chasing rainbows,for they think they aren't real, But they aren't something you can touch,they're something you must feel..." Building ___ooOOoo__ Rainbows www.trisomyonline.org Families Helping Families On-line