[tri-wings] Re: Thearpy

Okay, this is my answer to the question, What good came out of Cassie's 
death?  I had to think about it for a while bc we haven't done anything yet 
in her memory or for the NICU.  We want to and we will the next time that we 
visit Maine. But the good that came out of having her bless our lives for 
the short time that she was here is, my marriage. She basically saved our 
marriage.  My husband and I hit a rocky patch in our marriage the year and a 
half before she was born.  I really didn't know if we were going to make it. 
  We moved to Germany and we thought that things would be better, but we 
were still fighting and having problems.  Then the news came that something 
was wrong at 35 wks. I went to pieces basically and he stepped up and had 
the enormous task of getting us home to family before I had her, and he 
managed with just hours to spare.  Then he broke down after her passing and 
other family problems and I had to be the strong one for a while.  But this 
drew us together like nothing else could. It made all of our other problems 
seem so insignificant.  It made me see that my husband would go to the ends 
of the earth for his family. I love my husband so much more now then I did 
then. I fell back in love with my husband.  I thank God and her everyday for 
my future that I now have with my husband.
Okay, so I'm ending this now bc I really can't see to type anymore.
Thank you so much for that wonderful question!


Beth Robichaud
Wife to Joe ( of 5 1/2 yrs.)
Mom to Cody age 4 1/2
Cassie 10/5-10/6/00 T18 and
Alec due March 25th (26 days left!!!!!)
U.S Army
Fort Jackson, SC
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