[tri-wings] Susan (work/terminations)

Susan,
Wow that is a hard one. I am sorry they are putting you in that
situation.  I am really bitter when it comes to people aborting their
babies.  I don't want to give them slack unless there is something wrong
with the mother and she has no choice.  Last year when they were voting
here in Rapid City they wanted to make abortions illegal, but it didn't
help a woman who has found out the has cancer and can't seek treatment
until she has baby.  I voted against it because it doesn't help those
women who might die if they don't.  The hardest part for me was all the
commercials from woman who did have abortions. There were several times
I wanted to call the radio station and tell them what I thought.  I
think if a woman aborts for no reason at all she has to live with the
consequences and I am not going to support her.  But if it is a mother
who is really sick and might die then I think she should be able to make
that decision. Sorry I didn't mean to start venting like that.  I just
wanted to say I am sorry they put you in this situation and that if you
succeed in it I have the outmost respect because I know I couldn't do it
with out making the mother feeling like crap.=20
I think my history of miscarriages and the fact that my husband and I
want another baby and that I lost one when he was only 2 days old could
make a big toll and might make her rethink her decision.  There I got
doing it again. Sorry I hope you guys all have a nice weekend and I hope
everyone's birthdays/anniversary/angel days go well with lots of love.
I think Christian's b-day will be even harder this year because I will
be in the desert as well as my friend is due on his b-day.  I hope she
has her then because I think it would be a nice tribute for Christian.
Well ladies talk to you later and Susan no matter what you do I know we
are all here for you. :)

Marianne
Mom to Antony (6) and T13 Angel Christian (29 Sep - 1 Oct05)
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