[tri-wings] Re: Stages of grief - Tiffany 's reply to Sheila - reply to Tiffany

----- Original Message -----
From: "Tiffany Killcreas" <tiffanyk@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
>   He wants to
> try to sheild me from everything and try and keep me safe and it is
driving
> me crazy.


This is EXACTLY what I was talking about!  For us it happened about 3 months
after - I hadn't gone back to work yet and was working on Jessica's website
which I was very excited about and it was helping me tremendously in
healing.  Mike just wanted to bury it and go on - so obviously, he thought
my time was wasted and I should go back to work.   So the thing that I was
most proud of he thought was a worthless.  We got through it, and now he
reads the guestbook and realizes how many people find it when they are
desperate and looking for information.  It's one of the worst hurdles to get
over, IMHO ( well no, they all suck)  and I think it's the make or break for
many marriages.  Fortunately, it sounds like you have a strong one and you
are finding compromise.  If you want to yell at him - come here and do it
first - that way when you do it to him, it might be toned down a little
(LOL)

lotsofluv
Deanna ~~~~
Mom to Nicole 16, Jake 12, Jessica (our beautiful T18 angel) 5/04/02 and
Rylee 9 months!!
Wife to Mike
Meet Jessica @ http://home.att.net/~warpehoski


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