Hi Coolen,
I know what you mean. I`m the only one who brings up Leyna , too. My hubby
saies every now and then something. Like if I say : "I miss her!" he answers
"well , this makes two of us!" . My mom is the only one who still speaks a lot
with me about her. I guess she is the only person who really understands me.
She even bought a whole baby room for Leyna, so that she would have her own
space as long as we would live with my mom when we move back next year to
Germany. She was the only one who told me before Leyna was born. "Mabey a
miricale will still happen. It was her first grandchild. She was wishing for
one since years. She lost her Granddaughter Like I lost my daughter.
My dad makes me really up set. He never asked about her. Not even while I
was pregnant. The other day he tol me something realy mean on the phone. he
said " What`s over , is over! You can`t change it! Get over it . And start to
find a job. You don`t know what you doing to your husband with this"
It knocked me from my chair. This man has absolutly no feelings. He doesn`t
even counts my daughter as his grandchild. He didn`t even want to see a
picture of her ( I guess that would make her to a person for him and not a
thing).
There are a lot of people saying and doing really cruel things.
I also wanted to add one picture of us with Leyna to our x-mas cards but
since the people don`t ask or talk anymore about her, I think it would make
them feel uncomfortable, so we sending neutral cards. i also don`t want to
bother the people with this. I just don`t want that they forget about her!
Nadine
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