[tri-wings] Re: (Re: It`s two month today) and FIGHT ABOUT X-MAS STOCKINGS

Nadine hugs to you. I am so sorry
about the fight you two had.
  I honestly dont blame you for wanting to
put up stockings for your angel baby.
I did last year and I probably will this 
year too.
  I have noticed since the miscarriage, my
boyfriend does deal with it and a much different
way. I cry. I plead for her to come back.
I named her, and I talk to her. I try to keep
her memory alive. Keith is quite the opposite.
where as he does mourn her, he recognizes that
she is gone and PREFERS i do not cling to her
too tightly.
  I finally asked him about it.
I told him that from my point of view
he didnt care we had lost a child.
  but he explained that clinging to her the
way that i was, was only hurting me.
  I have no doubt your husband is trying to protect
you from the pain. sit down and try to talk calmly.
if keith and i hadnt I would never known why he was
doing this.
  thinking of you.
  celeste
   

 

                
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