[tri-wings] Re: Rant about my ex

Mandy

I don't know the circumstances of what happened...but I am sure that is why
there is a support group to listen and to try understand. You can rant and
rave as long as you get it out of your system. I hope you feel better.

Best regards,

Michele mother to ^i^ Cydne Robin (T13)


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Sent: 27 November 2004 10:41
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Subject: [tri-wings] Rant about my ex


Please feel free to hit the delete key right now as I'm not sure where this
is going but do need to write it down and get it off my chest.
On Tuesday evening Steve (my ex)phoned the kids.This in itself is something
that only happens when there is a blue moon or pink snow but that's the way
I prefer it be anyhow.After he had gone, Charlotte let it slip that Dad had
taken Chris (his boyfriend) to put flowers on Gareth's and Dominic's graves.
Maybe I'm way out of line but I really am %*$$ed off by the fact that he has
been there with Chris.I know he could say the same about me taking Barry but
he never went when we were married and has never been since we split (to my
knowledge).His attitude has always been that they are gone and we should
bury the past so why has he suddenly felt the need to take his new
boyfriend? He laughed at my compulsion to visit daily in the beginning and
then weekly as time moved on.He couldn't understand my need to get the
headstones engraved and used to laugh at me when I made an early morning
trip there on angel days and Christmas Day.All that I can think is that they
made it some kind o
 f freak show (just like his mother did when we buried them) and I can
imagine him standing there telling the story like he sees it and how I have
never been "normal" since.
I'm glad that Charlotte did tell me and if he has had some kind of life
changing experience that has made him release what grief is then fine but I
strongly suspect that it was more of a sight seeing trip than anything else
or maybe he was just telling his daughter to make it know to me he had spent
some money on flowers for two of his children......like I ring him everytime
I go there or everytime I buy something for his two living children !!!!!
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Ok rant over.....
Back to normal service :-)

hugs
Mandy,wife to Baz, mum to Matthew(12),Charlotte (10) , Gareth (t18 ^i^
14/11/99)and Dominic (CH ^i^ 23/7/00) and my little pot of gold at the end
of a very long rainbow
,Alfie( 19 Apr 04),
step mum to Katie(^i^) Ed (16)and Lucy(14 )England,UK
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