[tri-wings] Re: Prenatal Diagnosis

Sonya I am so sorry. Well good on you for loving her no matter what.=20
I am sure with time I may feel differently.=20
Have a nice weekend and lots of hugs.=20
Marianne
Mom to Christian (T13) 9-29-05/10-1-05, Anthony (4) Jun 4th 2001
" Those who can endure most are rewarded most" unknown


-----Original Message-----
From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Sonya Nuri
Sent: Friday, March 31, 2006 1:28 PM
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Prenatal Diagnosis

Well, I'm not married or even currently with anyone, so my next
pregnancy is a long way off (Kahlil was rape). Who knows how I will
feel at that point.
  --Sonya
Deaton Marianne D SSgt 28 MOS/MXOOA <Marianne.Deaton@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
wrote:  I wish I could say that Sonya and who knows maybe I will change
my mind.
However my doctor really wants me to do testing with any future
pregnancies because of all of my losses. I hope with the next one it
will be worry free.=3D20
Marianne
Mom to Christian (T13) 9-29-05/10-1-05, Anthony (4) Jun 4th 2001

-----Original Message-----
From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Sonya Nuri
Sent: Friday, March 31, 2006 11:39 AM
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Prenatal Diagnosis

I didn't get any extra testing, and I wouldn't have, but Kahlil's DX
was found through a regular ultrasound first. I'm really glad I had the
DX as I was able to prepare for the loss (we knew he wouldn't live for
more than a few minutes). I was able to have my family there to meet
him, which I normally wouldn.t have. Despite being glad to know with
Kahlil, I still don't think I will have any testing with my future
children. I want my future pregnancies to be a celebration, not a time
of worry. If I find out through some normal means, thats ok, but I'm
not going to go looking for it. At least, that's how I feel now.
  --Sonya
Deaton Marianne D SSgt 28 MOS/MXOOA=20
wrote:  I agree. We didn't do any tests until he had to.  In order for
Christian's condition to be put in my medical records the military had
to do the amnio to confirm his condition.  We were half way through my
pregnancy when we found out. =3D3D20
However I think I will do all the tests next time just because we have
had so many problems.=3D3D20

Marianne
Mom to Christian (T13) 9-29-05/10-1-05, Anthony (4) Jun 4th 2001
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-----Original Message-----
From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of mabeccacws
Sent: Friday, March 31, 2006 10:37 AM
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Prenatal Diagnosis

I think education is a vital thing.  I consciously chose not to do any
testing during my pregnancy with Ruth.  I am so glad that I didn't.  I
got to enjoy a healthy pregnancy without the added stress of her
diagnosis.  That was one small piece of joy in such a hard situation.
If I had known her condition, I wouldn't have done things differently.
That is just me.  I think each person should decide for themselves.

Rebecca, mom to Kashi (20) and Ruth (full t-13, 3/25/04-1/16/05),
"stepmom" to Josh (34) and Joe's main squeeze
please visit Ruth's page at http://babiesonline.com/babies/r/ruthann/



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