[tri-wings] Re: Practial if morbid advice???

Sophie,

If ever there was an email that said more than the words that were =
typed, it
is this one. I don't have any advice about where to find a reasonable
stonemason. But I do encourage you to do it. The cost will be quickly
forgotten, but the value will be there the rest of your life. Those =
little
ones are more precious to you than all the diamonds in the world, a =
fancy
car, and even a new home. You would not suffer the pain you feel if it
wasn't so and I suspect that your hurt is more today than it would be if =
you
lost anything physical.=20

Sophie, my advice is that you should save up and pay for it. It is a =
gift to
your kids, it is their gift to you. Cost is good. It creates value. We =
call
these little ones angels, but they aren't technically. They are our =
children
forever. From the bottom of my heart, I believe that they do not cease =
to
exist. I believe that they see you and care about you. In fact they =
probably
care about you more than you do them. You see, they see a little bigger
picture than you do. We're praying for you too. Listen quietly. You will
hear and feel them.=20

Paul
Grandpa to Angels
Annalis Renee Brown T18- April 9, 2004
Autumn Marie Brown- Feb. 20, 2003

-----Original Message-----
From: tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx =
[mailto:tri-wings-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]
On Behalf Of Sophie Talbot
Sent: Wednesday, January 19, 2005 2:43 PM
To: tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [tri-wings] Practial if morbid advice???

Hi,

To introduce myself... my baby daughter Rosa was stillborn at 17 weeks =
just
before Christmas. She was full T18 with cystic hygroma. We have =
eventually
decided to give her a formal burial in a local cemetary. I had a =
miscarriage
in January 2004 so we are hoping to bury Rosa with her sibling. I've =
found
that headstones are really expensive though and we have little money to
spare... does anyone know of a reasonable memorial stonemasons that =
would
serve the north London (UK) area? I have no other children (my partner =
does
have a 13 year old daughter), it feels so important to have Rosa and my
other child buried somewhere we can visit so I can sit with them and a
headstone marking that they really did exist and were loved very much =
would
make all the difference.

Thankyou all,

Sophie Talbot
Mum to Rosa T18 +CH, stillborn at 17 weeks, 18 December 2004


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