[tri-wings] Re: Platitudes

I hated the line "Ah sure, you'll have another baby to make up for it", 
and "it was never meant to be".  Someone even told me that my baby might 
"come back in the next baby".  Both of my babies are special to me, 
Conor is not and never will be Arily.
Oh, and my boss told me to "get over it, you never knew the 'fetus' so 
why be upset".  I didn't stay at that job for very long after that!
Funny how people try to brush off the death of a child when it happens 
during pregnancy...so annoying and upsetting...

Jean

-- 
Mum to Arily Faith, born asleep, July 8th, 2006
and to Conor, born June 21st, 2007


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