[tri-wings] Re: Platitudes

You know it often amazes me that people can grief for their parents for what
seems like years...but when it comes to babies they think just because they
were not here for years that "you need to get over it"  Just
amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I strongly believe that it is a part of life to
loose your parents or grandparents even brothers and sisters...but not your
children...no matter how old they may be!
Sorry that your friend seems to forget that they were and still are a HUGE
part of your life and you will always MISS THEM!!!!!

Hugs,
Tracy mom to Cody (Trisomy 9)


----- Original Message ----- 
From: <S3219@xxxxxxx>
To: <tri-wings@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
Sent: Wednesday, November 28, 2007 4:35 PM
Subject: [tri-wings] Re: Platitudes


>
> Honestly,
>
> I don't know that my grief is any deeper or different than that of any one
> of you.  I'm still amazed at how raw it is some days especially as I read
what
> our "well meaning" friends and relitives have said to us in an  attempt
to
> somehow lessen our pain and their discomfort over an unbearable  agony.
>
> I was just told yesterday while out shoping with a friend that I "need to
> just get over it. They've been gone a couple of years already."  I
corrected
> her that they've been gone 15 and 16 months and I will never get over  it.
And,
> I have every right to drop a tear or two when something  reminds me of how
> much I miss them.
>
> Sometimes I think that my other kids are the real heros in all of this
> because if I didn't have them I'd have joined the girls or gone crazy a
long  time
> ago........
>
> Nancy
>
> mom to angels Sky (11/23/92--8/26/06)
> and Analee  (7/22/96--7/4/06 T-18) and
> Tony 9, Ian 4, and India 3 at home.
>
>
>
>
>
>
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